Homosexuality

[Admin Fried Eye]

Ok , FE, I always believed, has been a group of open minded people,
who wouldn't hide behind the shield of diplomacy or silence as far as
discussion on topics of controversy are concerned. I am also sure that
since all of you are mature persons, you can handle any sort of
exchanges intelligently , so I would like to know your opinion on
Homosexuality. But in case if I have assessed wrongly , then please
feel free to point it out, I will instantly delete the thread. However
I will love to hear the reasons if in case you feel this is
objectionable. So... ? :)

[Manjil P. Saikia]

Its not.

I have been approached by two gay persons till now. I just told them, I am straight.

[Admin Fried Eye]

And what about your opinion on it? I mean it can't be as simple as -
I like it- or I don't like it. Isn't it Manjil?

On Dec 23, 2:18 pm, "Manjil P. Saikia" <manjil.sai...@gmail.com>
wrote:

[Sanjeeta]

I have a gay colleague who looks like boy but he has refined behaviour like woman = he is more compatible with gals than boys and very vocal for their rights
Warm Regards,

Sanjeeta


Sent on my BlackBerry® from Vodafone

[Sankhya Samhita]

I remember reading somewhere that homosexuality is not really a
choice. The decision about a person's sexual orientation is made even
before he/she is born. Even though I haven't actually come in touch
with homosexuals I'm sure not comfortable with how they are
stereotyped in movies etc. I think I will be okay in the company of a
homosexual, but how I am going to treat a gay/lesbian couple, I don't
know! Is that being hypocritical?

Sankhya Samhita
Tezpur

[mani padma]

I don't think you are being hypocritical. Its the same logic of preferences that can be applied. Like they are fighting for recognition, social equality and decriminalisation. Well they are right to ask for rights saying that it is something they really can't help about and should be accepted as it is. Fine. I am all for de-criminalisation, social and legal equalities and marriage and other laws, but the fact remains that it all boil downs to preferences and a kind of response. If the homosexuals can't help but feel how they feel, then so is the case with the group who are not comfortable with it. right? they can't help it. they can't help but feel uncomfortable with the whole idea. but again it still is possible to co-exist peacefully without treading on each other's toe. its just about free will. Gays can have all the rights and be socially accepted, but they cannot force anyone to be warm to the idea and not differentiate psychologically. After all we are born with some things, right?

[Mr. Pramathesh Borkotoky]

I had gay friends when I was in college, that is 10 years back. I liked the fact that back then it was not an issue of rights. They are pretty normal people. I would not have known that they are gay if they hadn't told me. The only problem they had was how to tell their parents. An Indian parent don't like the fact about their sons. They want them to be manly.

One boy liked to dress like girls but I'm not sure whether he was gay.  He was very entertaining however.

[Admin Fried Eye]

Actually an Indian parent wouldn't be able to accept homosexuality of
a girl child too and not only restrict the issue to a son being manly
or unmanly. yes thats pretty much true about them being normal.
well , the issue gains importance only when we can correlate it with
someone who is related or dear to us. In a third person perspective,
it is pretty much easier to remain neutral. I think the true opinion
can be brought out with only when we face it first hand.

On Dec 23, 4:45 pm, "Mr. Pramathesh Borkotoky"

<pramath...@friedeye.com> wrote:
> I had gay friends when I was in college, that is 10 years back. I liked the
> fact that back then it was not an issue of rights. They are pretty normal
> people. I would not have known that they are gay if they hadn't told me.
> The only problem they had was how to tell their parents. An Indian parent
> don't like the fact about their sons. They want them to be manly.
>
> One boy liked to dress like girls but I'm not sure whether he was gay.  He
> was very entertaining however.
>

>  <http://www.friedeye.com>

>
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>
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>
>
>
> On Fri, Dec 23, 2011 at 4:41 PM, mani padma <manipad...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > I don't think you are being hypocritical. Its the same logic of
> > preferences that can be applied. Like they are fighting for recognition,
> > social equality and decriminalisation. Well they are right to ask for
> > rights saying that it is something they really can't help about and should
> > be accepted as it is. Fine. I am all for de-criminalisation, social and
> > legal equalities and marriage and other laws, but the fact remains that it
> > all boil downs to preferences and a kind of response. If the homosexuals
> > can't help but feel how they feel, then so is the case with the group who
> > are not comfortable with it. right? they can't help it. they can't help but
> > feel uncomfortable with the whole idea. but again it still is possible to
> > co-exist peacefully without treading on each other's toe. its just about
> > free will. Gays can have all the rights and be socially accepted, but they
> > cannot force anyone to be warm to the idea and not differentiate
> > psychologically. After all we are born with some things, right?
>

> > On Fri, Dec 23, 2011 at 3:58 PM, Sankhya Samhita <mamon...@gmail.com>wrote:
>
> >> I remember reading somewhere that homosexuality is not really a
> >> choice. The decision about a person's sexual orientation is made even
> >> before he/she is born. Even though I haven't actually come in touch
> >> with homosexuals I'm sure not comfortable with how they are
> >> stereotyped in movies etc. I think I will be okay in the company of a
> >> homosexual, but how I am going to treat a gay/lesbian couple, I don't
> >> know! Is that being hypocritical?
>
> >> Sankhya Samhita
> >> Tezpur
>

> >> On Dec 23, 2011, at 4:38 PM, Sanjeeta <sanjeeta.sanje...@gmail.com>

[.........Rak........]

Hi,

This word has been a “homosexuality” as been a history in itself. i watched a movie names MILK on Harvey Milk. That movie made me understand a lot abt their emotions and what they feel. Its about individuals thought about the way they decide to live. So I went on googling abt him and then I ended up googleing abt homosexuality. It took me some sites, LOL… "PJ"

My opinion, the feeling best described by the one who feels abt it. I guess it’s not natural, as other than human, I have never come across a homosexual cow or dog or any other animal. A girl feeling for a girl or a boy feeling for a boy is an accommodating that the human mind designers due to the impact of the surrounding or may be an idea to try some think new. I wander, what was going through minds of the very 1^st homosexual coupe, when they decided to be homosexual? Well abt the people who display behavior of either of the kind or more of the opposite kind, they are not homosexual. They have hormonal disorder or to say imbalance.

I did come across a homosexual person, a girl. I did not know until she said so. When I asked why? She said, men are such dogs so why bother… … that was her dissection.. so why bother..

My opinion, I would not make any difference in accommodating a homosexual unless and until the attempt is not on me. I am straight...:)

 

With regards

Rakib

> >> > Sent on my BlackBerryŽ from Vodafone

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can we have a chat with the girl?

and her love story... or hate story?

:)

for feb 15 issue

2011/12/25 .........Rak........ <raki...@gmail.com>

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