What Makes Strong and Nurturing Families?
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living creature. We spend our lives in relationships, either toxic or
nurturing. If the family of origin was not supportive and loving, we
either repeat that pattern or look for other mentors and teachers.
Can you visualize a closed fist as opposed to an open hand? That is
the difference between a closed and dysfunctional group and a
learning, sharing and supportive one. The closed one is turned inward
and harsh in judgment and expectations. The open one is welcoming and
willing to help others as well as receive help.
Closed or Open Families
When we look at families, either of birth or deliberate connection, we
admire and wish to emulate, there are usually a number of variables
present in the makeup. One or more are usually absent from a closed or
dysfunctional family organizations.
1.Open communication. The members are free to express opinions and
make mistakes without losing love. They talk often and freely express
feelings and emotions. They look for new ways to encourage each other
and don't just do what has always been done. The family members ask
for help, forgiveness and support when it is needed.
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