fo-dicom opens an tcpconnection with
_tcpClient = new TcpClient { NoDelay = noDelay };
_tcpClient.ConnectAsync(host, port).Wait();
Stream stream = _tcpClient.GetStream();
the AssociationRequestTimeoutInMs plays a role, when sending the associationrequest messages on this created networkstream.
So the different timeouts can only be explained by different defaults on different machines/settings.