Which version of Jaybird are you using?
To be honest though, this sounds more like a low-level issue with the
network stack or xinetd, and I'm not sure anything in Firebird or
Jaybird itself would be responsible for this.
However, I would recommend that you upgrade to Firebird 2.5.9 as several
server hangs and crashes were fixed in 2.5.8 and 2.5.9.
When this problem happens, are you able to connect to Firebird with
other tools? If so, the problem is definitely not Jaybird related, and
it might be better to ask on firebird-support.
Also, does this Firebird server only need to accept localhost
connections? If so, try to restrict the bind to only 127.0.0.1 (instead
of 0.0.0.0), and see what happens.
Mark
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Mark Rotteveel