Second of all, I am a very proud, confident, self-assured, independent
assertive totally blind woman; but most importantly, I am a sensitive,
compassionate, understanding, and passionate woman as is "any" woman who
is in touch with her softer, more feminine qualities. And in this respect
my being blind makes no difference, for as any woman does, I long to have
that one "special" man at my side. Again, just for the record, I do not
consider my disability an imperfection.
Now if your ego is still secure and your fears are still intact -- and
you would like to know what I am all about as a person, my interests, my
personality (the stuff that makes up *the real* me!) then, please, please
do read on. You just might discover to your surprise and amazement, that
you are that "one good man" I am looking for. And, don't worry if you
aren't a resident of Atlanta -- if the sparks fly and the chemistry
between us is a hit, I have no problem relocating to another major city
(or the suburbs thereof).
Now down to the basic stats and qualifiers of this relationship, right?I am
40, a straight, SWF, never married, no
dependents; long, shoulder-length blonde hair, dark blue eyes. I am looking
for a guy who
fits a very broad spectrum: my man is somewhere between the ages of
25-65, 5'8"-6'4", average weight to 40 lbs. under or overweight,
straight, SWM, divorced or widowed, children of any age okay, considers a
monogamous relationship a virtue not a curse. I do own a masters degree
in community counseling and work as a rehabilitation and mental health
counselor; but, I have just as much respect for a man who is educated ina
well-read, self-taught fashion reflecting this by being financially
secure and successful in his chosen line of work -- a college educated
man is fine but not a necessity. More importantly: a zest for life and
learning about new things and exploring new interests. Good personal
hygiene a must! Lots of similar interests and ideas and values shared in
common quite desirable.
I enjoy a good sense of humor, laughing, talking, reading, being with
friends, dining out, going to or renting movies, concerts, traveling,
adventure, spontaneity, sightseeing, playfulness, openly affectionate; enjoy
all types of music except rap, heavy metal or opera; go to plays. Don't
smoke but light smoker okay. I am a social drinker, would prefer the
same or either a nondrinker who doesn't mind if I or my friends socially
drink. Currently have no pets but love cats and dogs. I also enjoy
surfing the net and receiving e-mail! Working out at a gym and developing
muscles should not be the most important aspect of your self-worth; rather,
how you appreciate and treat women matters a lot more to me than how much
hair you have or the size of your bank account!
As I stated at the top, I am looking for a man who is looking for a
long-term, monogamous relationship which could lead to marrying my
best friend and companion.
If I seem the least bit interesting or intrigueing to you, and you want to
explore our possabilities further,
please e-mail me at pat...@netcom.com. And if you do want to know what I
look like as well as find out what else makes me tick, I do have a
picture availble on file that I can send over to your e-mail address.
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-- Whenever one woman or man displays courage, they make a difference.
The spice of life: a challenging conversation, flirting, laughing, &
having a good time!