大家好,
我刚刚发出了给晓晴的邮件(如下)。
谢谢大家的努力, 尤其是一平同学,蒋峰同学及秋苹同学的贡献。一平和蒋峰还帮助我修改了邮件本身。景怡老大哥也帮助我找到了错误。 一并谢了。
我真心希望我们,包括晓晴,把此事做一阶段性了结。大家一起向前看。
祝大家身体健康。
瑞新
From: Ruixin Yang
Sent: Sunday, November 03, 2013 11:40 PM
To: gljh...@yahoo.com
Cc: Ruixin Yang
Subject: A message from your F7ers family
Dear Xiaoqing,
As November 7th is approaching, we all understand that this is a special time for Jessica and you.
In the past few weeks, our classmates had intensive discussions on the memorial of Guowei. Finally, Yao Yiping coordinated an effort to put all the memorial materials-in-words into a special collection. A few photos are also included in the collection. Jiang Feng, Zhang Chiuping, Qian Like, and many other classmates have made their contributions in the final version of the collection. The inserted photos were taken by Jiang Feng and Deng Zhongping.
On behalf of all of our Tsinghua classmates and friends, I am sending this email and the Guowei Memorial Collection by her Tsinghua classmates and friends.
All of the classmates and friends hope that you will take good care of Jessica and yourself, move forward, and come back to our F7ers family soon. In the meantime, please know that we are always on your side and please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
Guowei will always be in our hearts.
Ruixin on behalf of all F7ers.
All,
FYI.
Xiaoyu and Qingping, please forward it to S7 friends.
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Regards!
Ruixin
From: Gene X Huang & Lisa G Li [mailto:gljh...@yahoo.com]
Sent: Monday, November 04, 2013 11:53 AM
To: Ruixin Yang
Subject: Re: A message from your F7ers family
瑞新,小姚,蒋峰,秋萍,力克,及其他流七固七 family members,
细细读过编辑中的每一条编文,真是像触摸到每一个慈爱关怀的心。我真是欠大家这笔深厚情谊。当然,“欠” 似乎用得不大妥当,其实我应该说我们真是活生生地体会到了大家的这片出自肺腑的深厚情谊,我们的感激也是用言语无法表达的。
读着编文,真是凄然泪下。从发现国伟生病到现在这一年多,我们不容易,大家也不容易。袁珩说我们在追悼会上“坚强”,其实不如说是震惊麻木,不知道痛, 像机器人。大家也恐怕都有同感。几个月后,等恢复了一些知觉,才慢慢知道有多痛(really?),透心 彻骨,没有任何东西能止住。
这几天我休假在家,每一天,每一小时,每一刻,我就像回到一年前的那一天,那一小时,那一刻,和国伟在病房里,她那双会说话的动人的大眼睛,她那双柔软的小手,她那潺潺细细的声音,她要我把call box, tissue box, 她的眼镜,还有水杯整整齐齐地放在她伸手可以够得着的位置的请求(在她入睡之前),就在我眼前。
这一年来,国伟一刻也没有离开过我(这是上帝的应许,也是我最大的安慰)。我去上班,她在门口亲吻相送,我下班回家,她从书房跑出来对我说“回来了”,我们一起作饭,她在厨房水池边捡菜洗菜,我开车,她在旁边帮我看路指路,我睡觉她就躺在我身旁(没有任何变化),我们一起做所有的事,没有任何变化。这也是国伟最大的心愿--family stick together。
星期四(十一月7日)我们邀请了当地最亲近的几个家庭来家里在一起坐一坐,谈一谈对国伟的珍贵回忆,庆祝神带给国伟和我们大家的美丽人生,也鼓舞我们更进一步明白和完成神在我们身上的人生计划。
流七固七family 的这个编辑,以及大家一直以来对我们的关心,这些出自肺腑的深厚情谊,一定会成为我们今后面对和走出悲哀痛苦的动力(毫无疑问)。
附上节选的我的日记。
再一次万分感谢大家,也愿上帝的祝福与大家同在!
瑞新:请你转发给流七固七family 。谢谢!
晓晴,国伟(in spiritual form), and Jessica