Cemetery Escort Duty
I just
wanted to get the day over with and go down to Smokey's for a few cold ones.
Sneaking a look at my watch, I saw the time, 1655. Five minutes to go before the
cemetery gates are closed for the day. Full dress was hot in the August sun.
Oklahoma summertime was as bad as ever -- the heat and humidity at the same
level -- both too high.
I saw the car pull into the drive, '69 or '70
model Cadillac De Ville, looked factory-new. It pulled into the parking lot at a
snail's pace . An old woman got out so slow I thought she was paralyzed. She had
a cane and a sheaf of flowers, about four or five bunches as best I could tell.
I couldn't help myself. The thought came unwanted, and left a slightly bitter
taste: 'She's going to spend an hour, and for this old soldier my hip hurts like
hell and I'm ready to get out of here right now!'
But for this day my
duty was to assist anyone coming in.Kevin would lock the 'In' gate and if I
could hurry the old biddy along, we might make the last half of happy hour at
Smokey's.
I broke Post Attention. My hip made gritty noises
when I took the first step and the pain went up a notch. I must have made a real
military sight; middle-aged man with a small pot-gut and half a limp, in Marine
Full Dress Uniform, which had lost its razor crease about 30 minutes after I
began the watch at the cemetery.
I stopped in front of her,
halfway up the walk. She looked up at me with an old woman's squint. 'Ma'am may
I assist you in any way?' She took long enough to answer. 'Yes, son. Can
you carry these flowers? I seem to be moving a tad slow these
days.'
'My pleasure Ma'am.' Well, it wasn't too much of
a lie.
She looked again. 'Marine, where were you
stationed?
' Vietnam , Ma'am. Ground-pounder. '69 to
'71.'
She looked at me closer. 'Wounded in action, I see.
Well done, Marine I'll be as quick as I can.'
I lied a little
bigger 'No hurry, Ma'am.'
She smiled, and winked at me. 'Son,
I'm 85-years old and I can tell a lie from a long way off. Let's get this done.
Might be the last time I can do this. My name's Joanne Wieserman, and I've a few
Marines I'd like to see one more time..'
'Yes, Ma'am. At your
service.'
She headed for the World War I section, stopping at
a stone. She picked one of the bunches out of my arm
and laid it on top of
the stone. She murmured something I couldn't quite make out. The name on the
marble was Donald S. Davidson, USMC, France 1918. She turned away and made
a straight line for the World War II section, stopping at one stone. I saw a
tear slowly tracking its way down her cheek. She put a bunch on a stone;
the name was Stephen X. Davidson, USMC, 1943. She went up the row a ways
and laid another bunch on a stone, Stanley J Wieserman USMC, 1944 She
paused for a second, 'Two more, son, and we'll be done'
I almost didn't say anything, but, 'Yes, Ma'am. Take your time.'
She looked confused. "Where's the Vietnam section, son? I seem to have
lost my way.'
I pointed with my chin. 'That way, Ma'am.'
'Oh!'
she chuckled quietly. 'Son, me and old age ain't too
friendly.'
She headed down the walk I'd pointed at. She
stopped at a couple of stones before she found the ones she wanted. She placed a
bunch on Larry Wieserman USMC, 1968, and the last on Darrel Wieserman USMC,
1970. She stood there and murmured a few words I still couldn't make
out.
OK, son , I'm finished. Get me back to my car and you
can go home.'
'Yes, Ma'am. If I may ask, were those your kinfolk
?'
She paused. 'Yes, Donald Davidson was my father; Stephen
was my uncle; Stanley was my husband; Larry and Darrel were our sons. All killed
in action, all Marines.'
She stopped, whether she had finished, or couldn't finish, I don't know.
She made her way to her car, slowly, and painfully. I waited for a polite
distance to come between us and then double-timed it over to Kevin waiting by
the car. 'Get to the 'Out'-gate quick. I have something I've got to
do.'
Kevin started to say something but saw the look I gave
him. He broke the rules to get us there down the service road.. We beat her. She
hadn't made it around the rotunda yet.
'Kevin, stand to
attention next to the gate post. Follow my lead.' I humped it across the drive
to the other post. When the Cadillac came puttering around from the hedges
and began the short straight traverse to the gate, I called in my best gunny's
voice: 'TehenHut! Present Haaaarms!'
I have to hand it to
Kevin, he never blinked an eye; full dress attention and a salute that would
make his DI proud. She drove through that gate with two old worn-out soldiers
giving her a send off she deserved, for service rendered to her country, and for
knowing Duty, Honor and Sacrifice.
I am not sure, but I think
I saw a salute returned from that Cadillac.
Instead of 'The
End'.... just think of 'Taps'. As a final thought on my part, let me share
a favorite prayer: 'Lord, keep our servicemen and women safe, whether they
serve at home or over seas. Hold them in Your loving hands and protect them as
they protect us.' Let's all keep those currently serving and those who have
gone before, in our thoughts. They are the reason for the many freedoms we
enjoy.
'In God We Trust'