Dick -
While Columbus, OH isn't a big city like Chicago or New York, it isn't small town America either. I have lived here my entire life, and I'm now age 66. I went to a mixed race, inner city high school. Two of my best buddies were black guys because we didn't know back then in the early 1960s that we weren't supposed to like each other. At high school reunions, we still give each other a hug, except for one of them - his name is on the Vietnam Memorial wall in D.C. We had no racial problems at all.
As for bullying - one guy in high school had no arms - a birth defect, his little hands just protruded from the shoulders. He was well liked and was the manager of our football team. No one gave him any grief, and if one had, the bad kid would have faced our linemen and linebackers in a dark alley.
Our male teachers wore suits to school, except for only the shop and gym teachers. The women teachers wore heels, dresses or skirts, and necklaces. Both male and female teachers looked like and acted like professionals. Now teachers come to school in jeans and tennis shoes.
We had Christmas vacation; not winter break. Our school choir had a Christmas concert. Boys had to wear trousers with belts. Girls' skirts had to be at least knee length.
In summer, we left home early in the morning with our ball bats and gloves, and played all day. We ate lunch at some kid's house where his mother was at home, and fixed us our lunch. We didn't spend our days at a warehouse now called a day care center.
We didn't spend our evenings and summer days playing some horrible, violent computer game.
I'll have to remain in agreement with Doug - this isn't the country in which I grew up.
Jerry E.