I have tried different projects around CEF for .Net recently, and it is quite hard to get something work.
I was able to build ChromiumFX and Xilium but the displays were wrong and unusable. I tried a 3rd one (I forgot the name, sorry) which works only if loaded from the main app domain, so not compatible with ExcelDna.
Awesomium worked fine, but is not open source and not free. I am not sure whether it is actively supported anymore.
In the end, I was able to do everything I wanted from the WebBrowser class (WPF). Do you have any good reason for not using it and for preferring Chromium?
I know that the WebBrowser does not accept more than 6 web socket connections. This can be changed in registry, but in Local Machine. The MSDN says that it can be overriden in Current User but it didn't work when I tried. Anyway, if you only want your control to communicate with your add-in, and if the add-in is hosting it, then there are apis to send/receive string messages from C# to JavaScript and vice-versa.
I am quite focusing on that matter now, so I would be happy to get your experience and share mine.
Regards,
Ron