Dear Charles,
I'm not a hundred percent sure whether I've understood the data and objectives correctly. But here is my suggestion based on how I interpret it.
You want to estimate the probability, or rate, of events connecting a person A to a task X. You also know that some persons are in the same team (a dyadic relation "team_member" on person-person pairs) and also that some of the persons are already connected to some tasks (a dyadic relation "connected" on person-task pairs). Then one of the explanatory variable should count how many team members of person A are already connected to task X.
If this interpretation is correct, the covariate can be specified as a closure statistic (e.g., DHE_CLOSURE_STAT). I would count the number of "third" nodes A1, A2, ... such that the source node of the dyad (A) is team_member of the third node and the third node is connected to the target node of the dyad (X). Many variations are possible: counting the number of such third nodes, dichotomizing this count (is there any such third node?), etc.
The statistics of type DHE_NEIGHBOR_STAT could be used, e.g., to count the number of neighbors (team_members) of A, or to aggregate some node-level attribute on these neighbors - but not to check how many of these neighbors are already connected to task X.
I don't really understand why the covariate should be categorical. In my interpretation it would be a count, or a binary covariate.
My interpretation assumes that there are several teams, so that some persons are team members and some are not. If on the other hand, all persons in you data are in the same team then the effect would just count the number of persons already connected to task X. Then it could be implemented by
DHE_NEIGHBOR_STAT on the target node.
I'm also not sure whether the events "person connects to task" are always dyadic, that is, one person node interacts with one task node. If this is the case, hyperedge statistics would not be needed and you could model it as a dyadic REM (in contrast to a RHEM). On the other hand, dyadic events could also be modeled with a RHEM - it's just not necessary.
I hope it helps.
Best wishes
Juergen