Issue 650 - God's Help, Reprieve, Why We Need Anger?

[Friday Nasiha]

In the Name of Allah, The Most Beneficent, The Most Merciful.

In This Issue: God's Help Reprieve Why We Need Anger? Break The Cycle Of Fear	September 9, 2011 - Shawwal 11, 1432 Friday Nasiha: Issue 650 www.fridaynasiha.com | www.youngmuslims.ca
Living The Quran God's Help Al Baqara (The Cow) - Chapter 2: Verse 214 'Do you reckon that you will enter Paradise while you have not endured an experience similar to that endured by other communities who came before you? Affliction and adversity befell them and so terribly shaken where they that the Messenger and those who believed with him would exclaim, "When will God's help come?" Surely, God's help is close at hand.' This verse points to way marks in the history of those following the Straight Path. This path is no easy route. It passes through privations, persecutions, and even sufferings of war to the point where the believers all but cry out, "When will God's help come?" This point when the followers of the Straight Path are convinced that it is only God who gives success, is also the point when God's help is at hand, and which leads on to the final triumph or prosperity in both worlds. God's support (nasr) is reserved for those who earn it: those who persevere and stand firm to the end in the face of all adversity and misfortune, never wavering but always certain that God's help is on its way. No matter how severe the ordeal may become, true believers will always look to God, and to God alone, for salvation and support. The dynamic of social and religious struggle reinforces the human spirit and encourages man to rise above his own ego and so emerge purer and stronger, ready to uphold the faith with greater energy and vigour. Thus, believers become a shining role model even for their most ardent adversaries, some of whom are liable to be impressed and join ranks with the believers, as witnessed throughout human history. But even if this were not the case, something else much greater and much more admirable happens: advocates of God's order are liberated from subordination to any worldly power or temptation. Life and its comforts become of no real consequence, and man assumes control of his world, which can only mean a triumph for humanity and the human spirit as a whole. The ingredients of success are faith, hard work, sacrifice, and perseverance. With those, victory is guaranteed and the road to greater, everlasting rewards, to eternal bliss, is direct and clear. Compiled From: "In the Shade of the Quran" - Syed Qutb, Vol. 1, pp. 250, 251 "The Quran: Annotated Interpretation in Modern English" - Ali Unal, p. 95
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Understanding the Prophet's Life Reprieve "Surely God grants wrongdoers, the oppressor, a reprieve. But once He seizes him, He utterly destroys him." [Bukhari, Muslim] God gives the wrongdoers some time to repent and amend their behaviour. If they do not take advantage of this opportunity, He punishes them severely. God sometimes uses wrongdoers to punish the sinful. This happens when God wills to punish them before the Day of Judgment. For example, after the Muslims split into many competing factions nine centuries ago and deviated from Islam, they were exposed to the Mongol invasion and massacre. Compiled From: "The Messenger of God: Muhammad" - Fethullah Gulen, p. 117
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Blindspot! Why We Need Anger? Although anger clearly has some connection with hostility and aggression, they are not the same. Hostility is an attitude of ill will, aggression refers to behaviour that is always meant to hurt, whereas anger is an emotion - plain and simple. Anger is neither a positive or negative emotion; it is the way we handle our anger - what we do with it - that makes it negative or positive. For example, when we use our anger to motivate us to make life changes or to make changes to dysfunctional systems, anger becomes a very positive emotion. When we express anger through aggressive or passive-aggressive ways (such as getting even or gossiping), it becomes a negative emotion. So why do we need anger at all? Why not simply work toward eliminating it from our lives entirely? The reason is that there are many positive functions of anger: It energizes and motivates us to make changes in our lives. It serves as a catalyst for resolving interpersonal conflict. It promotes self-esteem - when we stand up for ourselves, we feel better about ourselves. It fosters a sense of personal control during times of peak stress. Expression of anger can actually promote health. Women with cancer who express their anger are found to live longer than those who express no anger. As uncomfortable as anger is for many of us, it can be preferable to anxiety, as it lays the blame outside ourselves. If we find constructive ways of releasing anger and safe places to let it out, it can become a positive force in our lives, creating energy, motivation, assertiveness, empowerment, and creativity. Compiled From: "The Nice Girl Syndrome" - Beverly Engel, pp. 165-167
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Maintainer's Message Break the Cycle of Fear! The international phobia of Islam and Muslims has assumed deadly proportions. This irrational fear is a worldwide scourge that is ruining people’s lives and livelihoods and causing normally decent people to develop fear and loathing of “the other.” Study after study has shown that people with the highest levels of Islamophobia are those who know the least about Islam and have had the least interaction with Muslims. Islamacloserlook.com is a pilot project with a specific focus – to succinctly and creatively dispel common myths that are fueling Islamophobia. Our objective is to break the cycle of fear. This sample site provides a glimpse of our approach and vision. We have created 2 professional videos, 4 web friendly articles as well as lists of useful books and websites. A fully completed website would feature 25 videos addressing widespread misconceptions as well as 50 articles and various online and print resources for further study. The content would also be fully accessible through social networking sites such as FaceBook and YouTube. We need your support to complete this site. All of our content will be fully downloadable so that people around the world can use it to help stem the rising tide of Islamophobia. With your support we can create a resource that makes a difference. Thank you and may God bless you. ------------------------ Spread the word. Follow the links below to invite more friends and families to join Friday Nasiha. If you want to invite multiple email addresses to Friday Nasiha please send the email addresses to us and we will invite them on your behalf. Please donate generously whatever the amount is. The more you donate the more we'll be able to spread the word via advertising and marketing. Any extra money we get will be used to fund other Young Muslims initiatives. You can donate online or send your cheque payable to 'Young Muslims Canada', put in the memo 'Friday Nasiha' and mail to: Young Muslims P.O. Box 48030 Mississauga, ON L5A 1W0 A small amount of your time will lead to a massive amount of reward from Allah and will benefit Friday Nasiha and its readers immensely. Remember, you have the potential to gain reward for every additional reader who joins and implements something which they learn from Friday Nasiha! Don't let this opportunity pass you by! May Allah reward you for your time! Subscribe to Friday Nasiha

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