In the reading by Iris Young, she talks about what she believes is feminine and how some women can become the exception to the rule. They are able to transcend what Young defines as femininity. “It is possible to say that some women escape or transcend the typical situation and definition of women in various degrees and respects” (pg 165) My question is what makes these groups of women able to become the exception. Is it due in part to their biology (that they happen to be like that) or does it have to do with the way they were brought up?
I believe that both factors must be considered when trying to determine the reasoning behind why a woman may not fit the perceived stereotype. As Young states on page 171 that, " [...] nor are they encouraged as much as boys are to develop specific bodily skills." Young exclaims that the way in which some women are raised plays a large role in their sense of self later in life. The more a young girl hears that she should be careful and that she is fragile the more that same girl, now I women, will be careful in different life situations. Although, upbringing plays a very clear and very large role I also believe the outcome is specific to each woman and who they are naturally. Young also states on page 165 that, "[...] it is not necessary that any woman be 'feminine'-that is, it is not necessary that there be distinctive structures and behavior typical of the situation of women." This means that there will be exceptions, and I believe that a combination of a woman's upbringing and personality will determine whether or not they follow Young's stereotype.
In my opinion this kind of exception has more to do with the way they were brought up, because the article mentioned that there is experiment being done showing that boys and girls are actually not that much different on physical movement and reaction when they were little. Therefore the growing process would be the key factor to consider. Women are often taught to be careful and cautious in life, so it is naturally for them to form some kind of timidity in their personality. Those exceptions might not fit into this usual growing situation, for example, their parents may be more open-minded, and they may have very unusual experience when they attended school compared with other girls’ way of growing up which we traditionally tend to consider as normal.
I feel woman can escape this idea of femininity due to the evolved equality we have between men and woman. Although this equality is not at its prime, woman is still able to move out of the public sphere. When a woman is allowing herself to become more independent, she is placing herself in the public sphere, which portrays a more masculine outlook because of the social construction of public belonging to the male recipient. Opening that distinction will allow more intersex qualities of femininity and masculinity.