"If I Die Young" is a mid-tempo tune accompanied by acoustic guitar, banjo, accordion, mandolin, fiddle, electric bass, and drums. It is in the key of E Major. The song is about the sadness of dying young ("The sharp knife of a short life") as the narrator describes how she never really got to experience love and worrying about how her loved ones will miss her and deal with the loss. She recognizes that once someone passes away, others seem to pay more attention to that person's life: "And maybe then you'll hear the words I been singin' / Funny when you're dead how people start listenin'." She states that if she dies young, then her family left behind should "save their tears" for a time when "they're really gonna need them." She states that she has had a well-lived life in the line "Well, I've had just enough time."
The Band Perry received at least one letter in response to the song. In its envelope, the members also found a necklace with a ring on it.[1] The letter's author was a young girl who had recently lost her best friend to cancer. Mourning her friend's death, the girl was contemplating suicide. Driving from work one day, she heard "If I Die Young" on the radio. Hearing "so much life in the song", the girl changed her mind. In her letter to The Band Perry, she wrote about the necklace: "I'm sending this to you, because it's the most important thing I own. This song literally saved my life."[2]
If I die young, bury me in satin
Lay me down on a bed of roses
Sink me in the river at dawn
Send me away with the words of a love song
Lord make me a rainbow, I'll shine down on my mother
She'll know I'm safe with you when she stands under my colors
Oh, and life ain't always what you think it ought to be, no
Ain't even gray, but she buries her baby
The sharp knife of a short life
Well, I've had just enough time
If I die young, bury me in satin
Lay me down on a bed of roses
Sink me in the river at dawn
Send me away with the words of a love song
The sharp knife of a short life
Well, I've had just enough time
And I'll be wearing white when I come into your kingdom
I'm as green as the ring on my little cold finger
I've never known the love of a man
But it sure felt nice when he was holding my hand
There's a boy here in town, says he'll love me forever
Who would have thought forever could be severed by
The sharp knife of a short life
Well, I've had just enough time
So put on your best, boys and I'll wear my pearls
What I never did is done
A penny for my thoughts, oh no, I'll sell 'em for a dollar
They're worth so much more after I'm a goner
And maybe then you'll hear the words I've been singing
Funny, when you're dead how people start listening
If I die young, bury me in satin
Lay me down on a bed of roses
Sink me in the river at dawn
Send me away with the words of a love song
Uh Oh
The ballad of a dove
Go with peace and love
Gather up your tears, keep 'em in your pocket
Save them for a time when you're really gonna need them, oh
The sharp knife of a short life
Well, I've had just enough time
If I die young, bury me in sating
Lay me down.
the useless sacrifice of successive generations of young Vietnamese in the name of ideological and political goals which have led the country to the total economic, cultural, and moral devastation it suffers today.
More than one hundred and fifty years ago the Frenchmen built the greatsquare fort, with round towers at each angle, which is now calledChambly Castle. At that time the only direct way of communicationbetween the settlements on the St. Lawrence and those in the valleys ofthe Hudson and the Mohawk was up the Richelieu River, Lake Champlain,and Lake George. It was this route that Burgoyne followed when he beganthe campaign that ended so disastrously for him at Saratoga, and it wasat Chambly Castle that he formally took command of his army. The castlewas placed just at the foot of the rapids, on a broad, level space,where Indians used to assemble in large numbers to trade with theFrench. Its high stone walls, while they could easily have been knockedto pieces by cannon, were a complete protection against the arrows andrifles of the savages, and could have withstood a long siege by anyEnglish force not provided with artillery. In the old days when thecastle was garrisoned by gay young French officers, and parties ofbeautiful ladies came up from Montreal to attend the officers' balls,and the gray old walls echoed to music, and brilliant lights flashedthrough the windows, the Indians encamped outside the gates must havethought it the most magnificent and brilliant place in the whole world.Now there is nothing left of it but the four walls and the crumblingtowers. The iron bolts on which the great castle gate once swung arestill imbedded in the stone, but nothing else remains inside the castleexcept grassy mounds, and the wild vines that climb wherever they canfind an angle or a stone to cling to.
Cut two pieces of card-board exactly the size and shape of the circle.Mount the embroidery upon one of them, and cover the other with bluesatin. Baste the two circles thus covered together back to back, havinglaid carefully between them three little circles of flannel a verylittle smaller than the outer circles. Then overhand the two edges ofthe pincushion very carefully together.
I wonder if I can help you a little in dressing these same dollies.There are two tall girls nearly in the middle. The one on the right wewill call Alice. Her dress is of fine soft cashmere of an olive tint.She has a wide sash of satin a little darker than her gown. Her friendFlorence has on a petticoat of Indian red, which is a peculiarly richdark shade. If mamma will give you a few bits of velvet or velveteen forthis petticoat, and also for the shoulder cape, Miss Florence will lookvery charming. Her over-dress may be of fawn-colored silk.
We are five little children, and we live in the country. We feel sosorry for the little sick children in the city that we want to sendto the Cot some money which we earned by picking blackberries andapples for mamma. We would like very much to send more, but we haveno more at present. We will try to save some, and send some againsoon. We sent once before; perhaps you remember it. We like thearticle in Young People about Egypt very much. When papa was ayoung man he was a sailor, and has been to Alexandria, in Egypt,and stood under Pompey's Pillar, and saw the two Needles which havebeen removed, the one having been sent to England and the other toAmerica. That is why the article interested us so much.
Correct answers to puzzles have been received from P. Embury, Jun.,Alice White, Maggie Ford, Peter Lent, John T. D., Effie R., PhebeMcBeath, Maggie Dean, Carrie C. Howard, Alice W., Gertrude Ford, "Fussand Feathers," William Armstrong, Charles Haynes, Theodore Hardy, JackTruman, A. M. Bloomingdale, Charlie De Gangue, "Eureka," Fanny Still,and T. B. D.
John Hadden, a young man who lived at 20 Lafayette Place, right around the corner from the Tredwells, could have been describing the Tredwell home when he wrote of a lively and somewhat chaotic wedding reception he attended on Tuesday, January 17, 1843:
Elizabeth and Effingham were married in 1845, at a time when the form of the American wedding was gradually transitioning from a simple, family-centered, informal celebration to an elaborate, public, and expensive spectacle. We have no record of their wedding, so it is impossible to know the location, format, or style of their festivities. Seabury, however, given his wealth and social status, could afford to give his eldest and first-wed daughter an elaborate wedding with all the trimmings.
Although it is uncertain if Effingham Nichols owned a horse, he did indeed acquire a wife, the bride being none other than Elizabeth Tredwell, eldest daughter of Seabury and Eliza Tredwell. Effingham was only two years into his law practice, located on 7 Nassau Street, when he wed the very eligible 23-year-old Elizabeth on April 9, 1845. We do not know the duration of their courtship, but Effingham must have received significant encouragement from the young lady during that time, emboldening him to declare his love and to propose marriage.
James R. Burtin, a young New York gentleman who worked as an engraver, recorded in his diary the exciting moment when, after nearly two years of courtship, he proposed to his beloved Ann Elisa on February 18, 1844:
In the mid-19th century, once the young lady and her parents consented to the marriage, the announcement of the engagement was initially made to family and intimate friends only; this was typically done in writing. This allowed all involved to take a collective breath and live with the idea; it would be during this time that either party could gracefully break off the engagement without doing widespread damage. After a week or two, the wider circle of friends and acquaintances would receive news of the engagement.
The lovely Elizabeth Tredwell, eldest daughter of Seabury and Eliza, no doubt received her share of valentines from young men of her class. She was pretty and accomplished, and would certainly have been considered an eligible young lady. The Tredwell Archives contain several charming valentines; however, the senders and recipients are unknown.
Once permission was obtained from the father, the young lady in question then extended a letter to the gentleman, inviting him to pay a call. She avoided displaying any excessive interest in him, however. Thornwell emphasized the importance of restraint:
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Jacob Sperry was a young man of 20 when he arrived in New York City from Zurich, Switzerland, in 1748. Although trained as a physician, his passion was horticulture; in 1771 he turned a plot of pastureland into a garden that, despite its two-mile distance from the city proper, became the go-to florist shop of its day. So famous had the spot become, wrote the New York Daily Herald in 1855, that: