Pat,
Don't use reltool. Its a massive pile of crap. You can use Rebar +
Relx or Erlang.mk + Relx. If you use Erlang.mk + Relx you won't need
to use rebar at all. Rebar does a decent job of just building and has
nice plugin support (I use it mainly because I want to use my
rebar_vsn_plugin). Erlang.mk doesn't have the plugin support of
course, but it also does a decent job of building. In either case relx
should be used to create the release.
Just a note, relx is an erlware project and I wrote the vast majority
of it, So assume that I am biased. That said, you are familiar with
the approach because it descended directly from sinan.
Eric