Formal Complaint Regarding Inappropriate Conduct by Erial Gold Coach
carly gray
Good Evening,
I am writing to formally express my concern regarding an inappropriate comment made by a coach from the Erial Gold softball team during a recent game ( 6/2@ 6pm on Erial Field) against the Stratford Hurricanes.
During the game, the coach was heard instructing a player on third base, “If the ball goes behind, then just run because the catcher isn’t skinny enough to get up fast.” This comment was directed at the Stratford Hurricanes catcher and was made within earshot of players and others present.
This statement was completely unacceptable. A coach should never use a player’s body size or appearance as part of a game strategy, nor should any athlete have to hear an adult in a leadership position make comments about their weight or body. Regardless of intent, the remark was disrespectful, unprofessional, and had the potential to embarrass and humiliate the player involved.
Youth sports are supposed to promote sportsmanship, respect, teamwork, and positive character development. Comments that target a child’s physical appearance undermine those values and create an environment that is neither supportive nor inclusive.
I would like to know what actions will be taken in response to this incident. Coaches are expected to model appropriate behavior for young athletes, and it is important that situations like this are addressed appropriately to ensure similar incidents do not occur in the future.
I appreciate your time and attention to this matter and look forward to hearing how this complaint will be handled.
I attached a picture of the coach as I am unaware of her name.
Sincerely,
Carly Gray
andrew devecchio
I received your email and the attachment. We will look into this.
Andrew
carly gray
Angelo Feliciano
Good afternoon,
My name is Angelo Feliciano, Vice President of Erial Little League and Chair of the Code of Conduct Committee.
Following the concerns that were brought to our attention, we conducted a thorough review of the matter, including interviews with several individuals involved and players who were present. Erial Little League takes all reports and concerns very seriously and remains committed to maintaining a safe, respectful, and positive environment for all participants.
As part of our review, we spoke with the coach involved as well as multiple individuals who witnessed the incident. Based on the information gathered, we believe there may have been a misunderstanding regarding the comments in question. The coach involved has been a dedicated member of Erial Little League for more than ten years and has also served on the Board of Directors. Throughout his tenure, he has demonstrated a strong commitment to the players, families, and values of our league.
While our investigation did not reveal any evidence of malicious intent, we recognize the importance of maintaining clear and appropriate communication at all times. We have addressed the matter accordingly and will continue to reinforce the expectations outlined in our Code of Conduct for all coaches, volunteers, players, and spectators.
Erial Little League remains committed to fostering an environment built on sportsmanship, respect, and the well-being of every child entrusted to our program.
Thank you for your continued support and confidence in Erial Little League.
Respectfully,
Angelo Feliciano
Vice President, Erial Little League
Chair, Code of Conduct Committee
On Jun 11, 2026, at 3:55 PM, carly gray <grayca...@gmail.com> wrote:
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Sincerely,
Carly Gray
Erial Little League
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