I think midlife is when the universe gently places her hands upon
your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear:
I’m not screwing around. It’s time. All of this pretending and performing –
these coping mechanisms that you’ve developed to protect yourself
from feeling inadequate and getting hurt – has to go.
Your armor is preventing you from growing into your gifts. I understand
that you needed these protections when you were small. I understand
that you believed your armor could help you secure all of the things
you needed to feel worthy of love and belonging, but you’re still
searching and you’re more lost than ever.
Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of
you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other
people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging. Courage
and daring are coursing through you. You were made to live and
love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.''