When Uchendu says “never kill a man who says nothing” he further explains as he tells the story of the “Mother Kite.” When he says this, he means that when people are captured and do not protest, they have something to hide or they know something that they do not want others finding out about. Also, when he says this he is saying that if one does protest than they are not to be feared. He says this because if they protest it shows that they have nothing to hide or hold back since they poured everything out when they pleaded to the one capturing or threatening them. The destruction of Abame shows the process of colonization by the way that outside people are coming into the village and trying to change things or in this case eventually show a threat to the people of the city that is already established. It also shows this aspect by the ruining of an established colony and then hopefully one day the rebuilding. When Obierka says “kill one of your sons for me” he is saying that in response to Okonkwo’s statement “I do not know how to thank you.” I think that when Obierka says this to Okonkwo he does not mean it harshly or cruelly. I think that he means it in a way to say that what he has done for Okonkwo cannot be repaid.
Uchendu further explains exactly what he means when he tells the story of the "Mother Kite". What Uchendu is saying by this is that if a person  does not protest and speak up when someone is trying to kill them then the are hiding something but if the person fights for his or her life and continues to protest and speak up about it then they are not guilty of hiding anything. The distruction of Abame exemplifies the process of colonization by showing how the white man and the strangers came into the town trying to change things up and make things different. The were forcing the people Abame to become like them in a way. 
I agree with your statements about "never kill a man who says nothing". I also read chapter sixteen on accident and I understand what your saying about Obierka's statement but I believe it was a way of him expressing his feelings about Ikemefuna's death to Okonokwo. Though it could be taken as a joke it seems so ominous to me.
Read chapter 15 carefully. What does Uchendu mean when he says , "Never kill a man who says nothing"? How does the destruction of Abame exemplify the process of colonization? At the end of the chapter, do you think Obierka is joking when he tells Okonkwo to "kill one of your sons for me," or does he mean more to that statement? Explain.
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When Ucendu says "never kill a man who says nothing" he meant that there is something ominous about a man who says nothing before death, yet "there is nothing to fear from someone who shouts. The destruction of Abame shows the the number and violence of the colonizers. Maybe Abame was destroyed as to set an example of what happens when they are resisted. It is ironic that a group that comes to colonize and spread the message of Jesus, and of not killing innocent children and people, would do that. When Okonkwo asks how to repay Obierka, he reply's with "kill one of your sons for me" On one hand it is a way of him saying you cant repay me, but I think that there is a lot more to it. Back when Okonkwo killed Ikemefuna, and he went to Obierka's to distract himself Okonkwo asks him why he did not come with him, Obierka replys sharply "I did no want to", "I had something better to do", this reply makes Okonkwo wonder if Obierka is questioning the authority of the Oracle, who ordered his death. Obierka makes a point to say he would have had nothing to do with it if he was in his place and "what you have done will not please the earth". I think the phrase "kill one of your sons for me" describes Obierka's feelings towards Ikemefuna's death.
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I think that when Uchendu says "Never kill a man who says nothing" he means that those who have been warned and do nothing deserve what they get. Abame was warned by the oracle, but they did not protect themselves Okonkwo says for himself that "they were fools". Abame was an example of how colonization was not peaceful and that many were killed. It also had to do with the spread of Christianity and that most did not want to accept it. It seemed as though when Obierika said that Okonkwo was to kill one of his sons for him as a gift of thanks that he was joking, because it was not expected at all. I also do not think that Obierika would want Okonkwo to kill his son because they are friends.
When Uchendu says "never kill a man who says nothing", he means that they should have given that man a chance to explain himself instead of killing him immediately. He uses the story about the Mother Kite and the duckling to explain his point. If someone takes something and the person didn’t say anything, they should wait for the person to say something. This brings us back to the point in Jocasta about the “husband’s right”. They should have let the “white man” talk instead of immediately killing him. I, surprisingly, have no idea what the line about Okonkwo killing his sons means. I would imagine it to be some sort of tribute to the Oracle.
I believe when Uchendu says "never kill a man who says nothing" he means that those who know they will be killed and do not protest are up to something. There is something ominous going on with the mysterious white man, and he was sure to keep it to himself before he was killed. He would bring in the white men like locusts, and they would plague the land with their presence. Europeans destroyed a lot of African cultures, and killed many natives to benefit their home countries without a second thought for the natives' wellfare. The destruction of Abame shows that colonization would not be peaceful. If they could not trick the natives into becoming like them, they would take them by force. Colonization was presented in some other villages as the spread of Christianity, but I believe that was a ploy. European conquerors often said that they conquered people to spread Christianity, but it was quite obviously meant for their own benefit. Religion was a tool used to gradually replace native culture by spreading their own.Personally, I found Obierka's response to be startling and completely out of place. I am still questioning what his mysterious response could possibly mean. However, I have a theory that he would actually like Okonkwo to kill Nwoye because he is one of the converts to Christianity. Though widely rejected, Nwoye chose to support Christianity because he found issues in his own culture that made him question if the world should truly work as it did in Umuofia. The "snapping" feeling inside him when he saw the infant twins dying in the woods or realized the truth of Ikemefuna's death was a realization of the wrongs within his own culture. Everyone else accepted it as it was, but he seemed to view his own culture as an outsider. In fact, I believe Nwoye is a kind of symbol. He is not the ideal Ibo man. He is not a great warrior, is not extremely wealthy, and is not a strong and independent worker. He is not like his father. Because he was pushed to the outskirts of the culture, his viewpoint is unique. It seems as if he is looking in on a culture he was raised in, but it is not his. The world he was raised in is still a mystery to him. Because he so readily accepted the white man's culture, the others would want to be rid of him.
On Thursday, October 18, 2012 2:13:31 PM UTC-4, kda...@calvarydayschool.com wrote:
When Uncheda says “Never kill a man who says nothing” he is implying that the man is hiding something. In the story of mother kite it says not to be afraid of the loud man for he has nothing to hide. The true mystery is in the man who remains silent. When someone does not say something or seems awfully quiet its possible they have valuable information. The destruction of Abame shows how much the colonizers wanted control. The cruelty and violence show just how harsh they are. When Obierka says to kill one of your sons for me to Okonkwo, he is stating that he can never repay Okonkwo.
I believe when Uchendu says "never kill a man who says nothing" he means that those who know they will be killed and do not protest are up to something. There is something ominous going on with the mysterious white man, and he was sure to keep it to himself before he was killed. He would bring in the white men like locusts, and they would plague the land with their presence. Europeans destroyed a lot of African cultures, and killed many natives to benefit their home countries without a second thought for the natives' wellfare. The destruction of Abame shows that colonization would not be peaceful. If they could not trick the natives into becoming like them, they would take them by force. Colonization was presented in some other villages as the spread of Christianity, but I believe that was a ploy. European conquerors often said that they conquered people to spread Christianity, but it was quite obviously meant for their own benefit. Religion was a tool used to gradually replace native culture by spreading their own.Personally, I found Obierka's response to be startling and completely out of place. I am still questioning what his mysterious response could possibly mean. However, I have a theory that he would actually like Okonkwo to kill Nwoye because he is one of the converts to Christianity. Though widely rejected, Nwoye chose to support Christianity because he found issues in his own culture that made him question if the world should truly work as it did in Umuofia. The "snapping" feeling inside him when he saw the infant twins dying in the woods or realized the truth of Ikemefuna's death was a realization of the wrongs within his own culture. Everyone else accepted it as it was, but he seemed to view his own culture as an outsider. In fact, I believe Nwoye is a kind of symbol. He is not the ideal Ibo man. He is not a great warrior, is not extremely wealthy, and is not a strong and independent worker. He is not like his father. Because he was pushed to the outskirts of the culture, his viewpoint is unique. It seems as if he is looking in on a culture he was raised in, but it is not his. The world he was raised in is still a mystery to him. Because he so readily accepted the white man's culture, the others would want to be rid of him.
On Thursday, October 18, 2012 2:13:31 PM UTC-4, kda...@calvarydayschool.com wrote:
Uchendu clearly tells us what he means when he says "never kill a man who says nothing". After he tells the story about the mother and daughter kite, he says "There is nothing to fear from someone who shouts". What he means by saying this is that people who do not speak and are silent when threatened with death are hiding something that they do not want others to know. When a person pours out pleads to not be killed have nothing to hide. The destruction of Abame shows how many colonizers would inflict tribes and villages with violence and war when they wanted control over it. The process of colonization can be done psychologically or physically and the white men who killed Abame obviously chose to colonize with war. The destruction of Abame shows how truly harsh colonizers were and still are today. When Obierka tells Okonkwo to "kill one of your sons for me", he is merely saying that what he has done for Okonkwo cannot be repaid. He is just using a hyperbole to get his point across. On the other hand I do not think he is joking, but just making sure Okonkwo understands what he has done for him.
When Uchendu said, “Never kill a man who says nothing,” he explained the story of Mother Kite and her daughter. In the story, when the young kite took a duckling, the mother of the duckling did not say a word, but when she took a chick, the mother of the chick went ballistic. The mother kite said that there is something ominous behind the silence of the duckling’s mother, therefore it was necessary to return the duckling. The mother kite also says that there is nothing to fear from someone who shouts, and that is why they ended up eating the chick. From this story, I think Uchendu is trying to tell us that those who keep their mouths shut are more than likely hiding something when being threatened by death, and those who begs for survival have nothing to hide. The destruction of Abame somewhat symbolized the colonization of Africa lead by the Europeans. The Europeans barge into the African tribes and villages to take over their land and resources, and do this for themselves without any consideration for the natives. When Obierka tells Okonkwo to “kill one of your sons for me,” I believe he didn’t mean it in a literal sense, but in a way to tell Okonkwo that he can never make up for what he had done.
Eva, I like the way you understood the phrase that Uchendu said, but it seems to me as if your understanding of it had nothing to do with what he had actually meant. When he was telling the story of the mother kite, Uchendu was saying that if one was silent when threatened with death, they should be released because they more than likely have something that they are hiding, which would need to be found out. Other than that, you have a great answer and I agree with you 100%.
In chapter 15, Uchendu says "never kill a man who says nothing." I believe he means that those who say nothing prior to their own death obviously have something they are trying to hide. However, "There is nothing to fear from someone who shouts" meaning, of they are shouting and pleading for their life they have nothing to hide. The destruction of Abame shows that the process of colonization can be very violent and the people were not ready for it. Yes, I believe he is joking but is serious at the same time. He doesn't want Okonkwo to actually kill one of his sons, however he is stating that he can never be repaid for what he did for okonkwo
I agree with what you think about "Never kill a man who says nothing" means, that one who is quiet is to be approached cautiously not recklessly. Also the destruction of Abame did show that colonization was a bloody and violent process, with the Europeans saying that they were doing it for the villages own good. Also i think that Obierka wasn't joking but was being completely serious either, that he did use it as an example for how to be repayed or that since Okonkwo's son had turned to Christianity he needed to be killed.