Wilde, Oscar. 1981. A Picture of Dorian Gray.
"All influence is immoral--immoral from the scientific point of view.
Because to influence a person is to give him one's own soul. He does
not think his natural thoughts, or burn with his natural passions. His
virtues are not real to him. His sins, if there are such things as
sins, are borrowed. He becomes an echo of some one else's music, an
actor of a part that has not been written for him."
Bacevich, Andrew. 2008. The Limits of Powers: The End of American
Exceptionalism.
"The ethic of self-gratification has firmly entrenched itself as the
defining feature of the American way of life...Over the past six
decades, efforts to satisfy sprialing consumer demand have given birth
to a condition of profound dependency."
Gray and Bacevich share a common idea. That people are naturally
dependent on each other. Though written over a hundred years ago,
Gray's perception of dependency still applies to today. Gray states
that there is no individualism, that people have "forgotten the
highest of all duties, the duty that one owes to one's self" and are
bullied by "temptation". This reflects similarly to Bacevich's idea of
"self-gratification", and "profound dependency" to one another. Gray
believes that the only way to solve this selfishness is to come to our
senses, and Bacevich believes that we should simply acknowledge it.
Both Gray and Bacevich recognize that the only solution is to accept
it.