For some appliances it's easy to select an on-power-threshold. UK kettles draw up to about 3kW so I usually pick a threshold of about 1kW.
Appliances like washing machines can be a little trickier because they use a small amount of power (<100 watts) during some parts of the cycle. I can't speak for others but I generally find that I need to look through a fair amount of data in order to select valid 'on-power-thresholds' for these sorts of appliance in each house. I find that the on-power-threshold needs, ideally, to be selected manually for each house because some houses have spurious loads on some channels. For example, in house 5 in UK-DALE the washing machine channel rarely drops below 15 watts which I presume is because there was an always-on appliance plugged into that channel. These hand-picked on_power_thresholds are encoded in UK-DALE's metadata for each appliance.