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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 6, 2021, 11:06:41 PM4/6/21
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how do u deal with death as an empath?  I lost my fiancé on 6/4/19  he passed away before my eyes  is it normal 2 b emotional after 1 year n 22 months after i lost my fiancé ? i didn't realize that am an empath till i lost my fiancé I've been very emotional n cry easy 

Gary

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Apr 6, 2021, 11:11:34 PM4/6/21
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Part of that is healing the trauma of seeing that. Two years  is not a long time to get over such a traumatic events. 

I normally suggest taking Bach Flower Remedies to help heal such  a traumatic experience.

Star of Bethlehem is great for healing trauma. I would look into taking that at the very least. 

You can find many details on how to cope with being an Empath with the free Empath Guidebook. You can download it here.


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how do u deal with death as an empath?  I lost my fiancé on 6/4/19  he passed away before my eyes  is it normal 2 b emotional after 1 year n 22 months after i lost my fiancé ? i didn't realize that am an empath till i lost my fiancé I've been very emotional n cry easy 

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matthew j espenshade

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Apr 6, 2021, 11:39:43 PM4/6/21
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There is nothing wrong with crying I still cry about all the people that i have seen die, I watched for three years my brother die of cancer and i will never get over that! But you have to live your life im sure that what he would want wouldn't you for him if the roles were reversed

Jolee Foerster

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Apr 6, 2021, 11:57:43 PM4/6/21
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It will b 2 years come 6/4/21 I miss him more then anything we where together 4 nine n a half years he was my world, n everything we where alw there 4 each other some days I can b fine n other days I can b an emotional wreak been crying 4 the past few days I struggle most days just 2 get through them . . . Reply 

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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 6, 2021, 11:57:43 PM4/6/21
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Where can I find Bach flower remedies n where can I find the star of Bethlehem? Reply 

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Gary

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Apr 6, 2021, 11:59:28 PM4/6/21
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Generally, depends where you live. They are certainly available online and quite reasonably priced for what they do and how long they last. 

Rescue Remedy is the most well known of them.

cyhumboldt

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Apr 7, 2021, 12:30:22 AM4/7/21
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Might not be allowed on thread but Ive found microdosing cubinsis has helped me so much. With grounding and for my emotions 



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cyhumboldt

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Apr 7, 2021, 12:32:31 AM4/7/21
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Jolee I had a relationship that was not good end 2 years ago and still mourn it. Saw my mom die in July and it was so heartbreaking its common to feel these things for many years love.



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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 7, 2021, 1:57:11 AM4/7/21
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I was reading  some where n it says that it’s hard 4 empath 2 deal with the loss of a loved one n it’s especially hard on empath 2 deal with grief also it will b 2 years come 6/4/21 since I lost my fiancé n my heart hasn’t completely healed not sure if it will heal all the way some days r harder then other 2 get through. I struggle just 2 get through n sleep I’ve been having trouble sleeping since my fiancé passed away am in pain 24/7 am on 7 different meds  just wondering r Ian empath? Is yes can u please tell me what crystals will n can protect me from picking up other people’ emotions n energy? Reply 



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how do u deal with death as an empath?  I lost my fiancé on 6/4/19  he passed away before my eyes  is it normal 2 b emotional after 1 year n 22 months after i lost my fiancé ? i didn't realize that am an empath till i lost my fiancé I've been very emotional n cry easy 

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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 7, 2021, 4:05:15 PM4/7/21
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hi how r u doing 2day n where online do i look 4 the star of bethlehem ? n what is the bach flower remedies? reply


Jolee Foerster

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Apr 7, 2021, 4:07:53 PM4/7/21
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hope ur doing well n what r u doing 2day n what r u talking about microdosing cubensis? what's that? reply

Jolee Foerster

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Apr 7, 2021, 4:55:17 PM4/7/21
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Is Bach flower remedies an oil or a spray yes I found it online  reply 

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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 7, 2021, 8:03:50 PM4/7/21
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What is the Bach flower remedies known 4  n witch one would u suggest I get n how many? Reply 

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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 7, 2021, 8:36:20 PM4/7/21
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 Ok I found star of Bethlehem what other one would u suggest 4 me? Sorry if am bugging u 2 much but no one has suggested anything like that 4 me as I said b 4 it will b 2 years come 6/4/21 since I lost Dennis n I know that I should of moved on n shouldn’t b grieving this long but my heart is still shattered n hurting reply 

I normally suggest taking Bach Flower Remedies to help heal such  a traumatic experience.

Star of Bethlehem is great for healing trauma. I would look into taking that at the very least. 

You can find many details on how to cope with being an Empath with the free Empath Guidebook. You can download it here.


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how do u deal with death as an empath?  I lost my fiancé on 6/4/19  he passed away before my eyes  is it normal 2 b emotional after 1 year n 22 months after i lost my fiancé ? i didn't realize that am an empath till i lost my fiancé I've been very emotional n cry easy 

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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 8, 2021, 3:54:36 PM4/8/21
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What other Bach flower remedies would u suggest 4 me? Reply 

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Gary

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Apr 8, 2021, 4:48:33 PM4/8/21
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Sorry for delay. I no longer monitor this group as much.

There are 38  different remedies and what you need depends on what emotions keep coming up.

There may be guilt, anger, resentment,  tormenting memories, etc.

Honeysuckle - For memories that keep on coming up for what you observes.
Holly - If angry at what happened
WIllow - If there is bitterness toward the situation
Pine - If you've taken on any guilt for not being able to prevent things or help.
Agrimony - If you are holding you emotions tightly within
Cherry Plum - To release those emotions
Sweet Chestnut - To help let go of what was and accept what is. (Dark night of the soul.)
Walnut - To help adjust to changes. 

Let me know if there is anything you feel that I missed. 

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Jolee Foerster

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Apr 8, 2021, 9:22:27 PM4/8/21
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I’ve ordered star if Bethlehem u said I should take that it will help me with what I’ve been through n also heal me I’ve also looked at the back flower remedies am still hurting after 1 year n 22 months after I lost my finance does that make any sense? Reply 

Gary

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Apr 8, 2021, 10:24:14 PM4/8/21
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Yes. It makes sense. Star of  Bethlehem is amazing for healing trauma. When you get it, take it often. For me, I took it every few minutes and the effect was profound. After about 10 minutes, I found that I needed it every 30 or so minutes, then every hour till I no longer needed it and forgot about it. For me, I healed from massive depression virtually overnight, and I have seen the same effects in others. 

I hope it helps you, too.

Jolee Foerster

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Apr 9, 2021, 12:29:49 AM4/9/21
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What changes will I notice I never thought seeing my finance pass away in front of me as a trauma until u said something about it n with me being an empath it would hit me harder then others is that correct? What other Bach flower remedies would u suggest? I have a lot of trouble sleeping n am also in a lot of pain I have scoliosis n an annular tear at L3-4-5 very painful reply 

Gary

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Apr 9, 2021, 12:55:56 AM4/9/21
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You would have some profound relief, if you are still carrying trauma. 

As for other remedies, please see earlier emails on this thread. 

Jolee Foerster

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Apr 9, 2021, 1:03:09 AM4/9/21
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Is the relief right away? N will I notice them? Reply 

Gary

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Apr 9, 2021, 1:09:40 AM4/9/21
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If I am right, then yes. You should feel a shift. 

If not, then it means there would be another issue to be addressed by a different remedy. It's just the way they work. Still, they are cheap enough and safe enough to risk trying. SoB is something that everyone should have in their first aid kit, in my opinion.

Jolee Foerster

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Apr 9, 2021, 2:36:34 PM4/9/21
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I’ve never heard of back flower remedies  until u told me about them thank u I appreciate it as I said I did know that was a trauma that I went through when I get it I’ll let u know how I feel n thank u again hope ur having a great day reply 

Gary

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Apr 9, 2021, 6:26:33 PM4/9/21
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Welcome. 

Just for your info, Bach Flowers have been around for 100 years. Though there are dedicated groups of people who use  them, they still remain largely unknown to most.

Jolee Foerster

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Apr 9, 2021, 9:41:25 PM4/9/21
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y did u  tell me that seeing my fiance pass away b 4 my eyes was a traumatic 4 me?  n it hit n affected me harder then others is it cause am an empath? n i  can sense n feel  thing more then others? R u an empath? as soon asa I get the star of bethlehem n use it I will let u know how am feeling ok  I ordered star of bethlehem n should b  receiving it by 4/22   the price was $15.29  from ebay is that a good price I would like 2 try some others also reply

Gary

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Apr 9, 2021, 10:06:33 PM4/9/21
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You're saying it wasn't traumatic? 

Price is on the higher side. You can get them for around USD7.00 or so. 

Jolee Foerster

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Gary

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Apr 9, 2021, 10:52:57 PM4/9/21
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you can try the flower essence society in CA for instance. 

Jolee Foerster

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LINDA GREENE

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oh well I had replied om death subject but no ones here and I don't see my response.

On Tuesday, April 6, 2021 at 11:11:34 PM UTC-4 Gary wrote:
Part of that is healing the trauma of seeing that. Two years  is not a long time to get over such a traumatic events. 

I normally suggest taking Bach Flower Remedies to help heal such  a traumatic experience.

Star of Bethlehem is great for healing trauma. I would look into taking that at the very least. 

You can find many details on how to cope with being an Empath with the free Empath Guidebook. You can download it here.


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how do u deal with death as an empath?  I lost my fiancé on 6/4/19  he passed away before my eyes  is it normal 2 b emotional after 1 year n 22 months after i lost my fiancé ? i didn't realize that am an empath till i lost my fiancé I've been very emotional n cry easy 

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Gary Leigh

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Sadly, Google have pretty much killed this type of forum. I've moved this to Facebook.

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