Cursed - someone wished me to feel their pain, how can I stop it?

[hsci...@gmail.com]

I started feeling someone else's emotions: a woman who very much dislikes me because she believes I stole her husband. I am currently in a relationship with her ex-husband. When I started feeling unusual chaotic emotions, I meditated and actually "heard" the "curse", which was that she wished me to feel the pain that she felt (i.e. the pain of being left by her now ex-husband). Even though they've been divorced over a year I still feel her emotional pain, her anxiety, her fear, her insecurity, her anger, etc. They manifest as my own fears about my relationship with this man and my own insecurities, then I realized these are not my feelings and let them go. But I feel very distressed when they pop up. Does anyone have any tips for making it stop? I've tried breaking our connection by imagining cutting a line, also repelling her thoughts by imagining deflecting with a mirror. I am concerned I'll be privy to her thoughts for a long time.

[Gary]

Bach Flower Remedies are very useful for stopping such emotions. Key is to work out what you are feeling and why. Is guilt involved? Fear? Victim mode? The right remedy can make all the difference. 

On Mon, 29 Jun 2020 at 21:05, <hsci...@gmail.com> wrote:

I started feeling someone else's emotions: a woman who very much dislikes me because she believes I stole her husband. I am currently in a relationship with her ex-husband. When I started feeling unusual chaotic emotions, I meditated and actually "heard" the "curse", which was that she wished me to feel the pain that she felt (i.e. the pain of being left by her now ex-husband). Even though they've been divorced over a year I still feel her emotional pain, her anxiety, her fear, her insecurity, her anger, etc. They manifest as my own fears about my relationship with this man and my own insecurities, then I realized these are not my feelings and let them go. But I feel very distressed when they pop up. Does anyone have any tips for making it stop? I've tried breaking our connection by imagining cutting a line, also repelling her thoughts by imagining deflecting with a mirror. I am concerned I'll be privy to her thoughts for a long time.

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[hsci...@gmail.com]

I'm very interested in researching the Bach flower remedies further. I'm a complete novice on this topic.

In terms of what and why, I believe this woman wants revenge on me and feels she is a victim and wants me to suffer. Perhaps I've had slight empathic tendencies during my life, but I've never had anything remotely as terrible as this type of psychic assault. I personally do not feel guilty nor do I feel like a victim. I feel I am an uninvolved person in my boyfriend's divorce and although I understand his ex-wife's thought process, I do not agree with it and I feel she just wants to shift blame onto someone else. There doesn't even need to be blame, but I think she wants to blame someone. I feel like she is doing something to me and I'm just not sure how I can stop her.

Please ask me more questions. Help me to logic this out. Maybe I'm missing something. It's really helpful to bounce this off of others who understand.