I am kind of having the same issue. I am am using a rec bms pre charge relay to control a gigavac contactor for LVD.
the relay is controlled by the xtio 3 set to 2, it works as it should for disconnecting the battery at low voltage. the issue
I am having is when I charge the battery ( I am using a Pro Mariner 1230p charger, that is the same as a Sterling charger)
the chargers setting is a little high, it charges to 3.65v. There is no HVD, I am just bench testing and cycling the pack to
try and get a battery capacity. I have one cell that runs at the top and causes the sbms to shut down OV and OVLK.
The first three or four times I cycled the pack I just put a jumper on the contactor and ran the inverter till it unlocked,
less than a minute at approx. 105a. the next time it would not reset till I ran about 50% out of the pack. I ran the pack to 3v today would not reconnect.
I started playing with it today,
Repowered it then everything was back to normal.
any help would be appreciated
Paul