You have older version of DSSR20 the v02c ? That is based on the fact that you mention RCn and RCp
In that case all you do is connect one of the terminals of DEXT 4S to RCp and the other one to RCn.
The DEXT can handle up to 400Vdc (not a typo 400V) so it is no problem to handle the RCp as supply no matter what your panel open circuit voltage is. When you used those Optocouplers those were only rated at 30V and could be damaged by the RCp thus the reason I recommended to use +12V and a resistor with those.
You can of course continue to use the +12V and resistor instead of RCp but is not needed with DEXT so you can simply connect 4S to RCp and RCn.