The DSSR20 you have is v04d and that has his own user manual. The limited edition DSSR20 v03 was included only the in initial SBMS0 user manual.
There will be no magic smoke no matter how you connect it but the version you have needs to be connected as shown in the DSSR20 user manual.
As you have the DSSR20 without diversion the Heat+ connection will remain unused and also on the small grey connector only the Batt connection will be connected to EXT IO4- while EXT IO4+ will need to be connected trough a resistor to battery+ as shown in the DSSR20 user manual page 7 figure b)