Fwd: [NVC Mediation] New Doc: Individual asking online support in online conflict

[Ike Lasater]

Hello all:

Here is a mediation or series of mediations that might interest you. 

Warmly,

Ike

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Date: January 19, 2012 01:17:47 GMT+01:00

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Milla Ahola posted in NVC Mediation. Milla Ahola created the doc: "Individual asking online support in online conflict" My name is Milla Ahola, I would enjoy support with the following:     1. I would like to know if there are persons here who are willing to facilitate / mediate a conflict between myself and XXXX XX, as well as BBBB BB. I am especially interested in persons with experience from restorative circles.     2. I would like to know if there are persons here who are willing to give empathy to me, during a longer period, for instance 7 hours over a period of 2 weeks   (I'm really shaken, tense and agitated [disheartened], and I would really find ease and safety in continuity, so instead of having different persons offering some time here and there, I would find comfort in not re-building the connection - like re-explaining what works/doesn't work for me when it comes to experiencing that I'm heard and understood- i'm also hoping to experience more comfort and care this way)     3. I would like to know if there are persons here who would be willing to check with their networks if there are persons there who would be okay with supporting me with point 1 and/or 2.     4. The best support ever would be to find someone who would be willing to take over the whole process of finding support and co-ordinating it for me. That would really lift a lot of pain. So, if you, or you can think of anyone else who might be okay with doing that, please, please, get in touch.   The conflict has moved between different facebook groups and has ended up here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/325522390802737/ You are welcome to join. You might perceive it as messy and disorganized. Be aware.    KEEPING TRACK OF INFORMATION:   With the awareness that life is everchanging, I don't want to be dependent on single individuals to satisfy my need for support, so I will keep the search on until I'm at ease. Once that is done I will change the content and title of this document indicating that I am no longer looking for support.   So far YYYY YY has offered mediation, she's thinking of asking another person that she's done this with before to join, to do this in a team. Myself and XXXX XX have both expressed willingness to receive this support.   ZZZZ ZZ  has offered mediation, which is an offer I have received with gratitude, and declined until I can understand and make myself understood with ZZZZ ZZ with more ease. ZZZZ ZZ is also willing to be involved in the mediation process in relation to XXXX XX, if XXXX XX is willing.   ZZZZ ZZ has offered to give me empathy between Jan 22 - 28, 1 hour per day, and I've said yes.   AAAA AA has offered help in a thread where YYYY YY is offering mediation. I've expressed that I would like to try out restorative circles, and asked if AAAA AA knows anything about that, and also if there's something that AAAA AA would like to help out with in particular.     MORE: I've asked person BBBB BB on the wall of 'Restorative circles' if this person would be interested in hearing me out on how certain choices and actions by this person has affected me, with the help of mediation - the answer was 'sure' - I've continued by saying that I see more persons involved in what I've experienced, and asked if this person would be okay moving along with trying out restorative circles - I have no experience of this myself, so I've asked if this person could, or would know someone who might be willing to help out. View Doc View Post on Facebook · Edit Email Settings · Reply to this email to add a comment.

[Tina]

 

Hello NVC Mediation friends and world-wide community!

 

Due to the similarity of intentions, and connections between NVC Mediation and Restorative Circles, I wanted to extend this invitation to all of you…

 

You're invited to attend/participate in the Global Semi-simulated RC Facilitator's (tele) practice...

 

We're starting in February by offering two telepractice opportunities. One is Europe-friendly weekend day & the other is Japan-friendly weekday: Hoping that you can attend at least one of these.

 

Sunday, February 5, 2:00p.m.

Thursday, February 23, 8:00p.m.

 

Times are USA EASTERN time... please take responsibility for doing your own time zone conversion. My favorite tool is here: http://​www.timeanddate.com/​worldclock/converter.html

 

 

 

There is no charge for the call, but REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED to receive via email your unique call-in number and PIN.

(If you have ever registered for a Semi-Simulated RC Telepractice in the past, you need not register again; the Maestro will send you a reminder email eight hours in advance of the call with your call-in number and PIN.)

 

If you are not registered and would like to be, here's the link:

 http://myaccount.maestroconference.com/conference/register/1UTMSFR417G7BKI   You will notice a series of dates for calls.  This is a Maestro technology requirement, and only the first two February dates and times are accurate.

 

 

This call is co-hosted by an international team including, Ronnie Hausheer (Buenos Aires), Susan Livingston (Berkeley), Mercedes Frace (metro Sarasota), and myself, Tina Michel (metro Cincinnati),  You are welcome to contact any of us at any time by the means of your choice with individual questions, requests, or feedback.

 

 We hope you will join one of the calls to participate in the practice of Restorative Circles.

 

More Information, videos and articles: www.restorativecircles.org

 

 A recent article about RC: http://www.tikkun.org/​nextgen/​walking-toward-conflict

 

 Peace,

  Tina Michel

 

 

 

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