I'm not aware of a clear answer to your question.
It sounds like you might like
https://akka.io/ together with Scala. I
don't know if I'd call it an "application scripting" language as the
JVM is a big thing to embed, but that might not be a problem for you.
As you know Scala does not include a totality checker.
I can think of less-mature projects that might fit the bill (e.g.,
there's a BEAM backend for the pure, dependently-typed language Idris:
https://github.com/lenary/idris-erlang) but that could be a support
burden.
If Matt has ideas, I'd suggest trying those first.
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William Leslie
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