it is short brief about myself, maybe I want put on article or post on facebook group page like dyusa or mine, is it good idea?

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Jake Go

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Nov 3, 2012, 8:27:52 PM11/3/12
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Rima,

I am deaf since born and I am 26 years old, I am asian-american, I graduated at California School for the Deaf, Fremont (
www.csdf.k12.ca.us) is the best deaf school in the USA and Gallaudet University (www.gallaudet.edu), is the only deaf and hard of hearing liberal arts university in the world. I discovered I had Asperger's at age 21 at Gallaudet University. My school never told me or informed my family that I had Aspergers. I had been single long time because I have difficult to right person whom I can have relationship with, why science or gene cause me become Asperger's and how am I diffferent person from normal people? 

Do I say I am depressed and I need a friend because I feel like I have no friends or not many friends when I am alone or lonely all the time back to hometown and often I went to friends' parties or event by myself because no friends around here but most friends in east coast or have on their own, what is the solve problem? When I talked to friends about friendship or relationship, some of them had stopped talking to me after wonder why I do need a friend with person who had but only have common interests like running, camping, books, and arts. 

That's why you see me posted many times and interact with people through online or Facebook most time when I am sitting at computer. What could I have do when I see not many deaf events like nightclub and bar in San Francisco compare to Boston and Washington DC, I was supposed move to Boston but maybe coming up soon for graduate school and work where I can get new a life.

Here is the brief about myself, I do want put on article or facebook group or mine wall, is it very helpful to get other deaf people understand me...is it good idea?

when I ask friends who had aspergers I need friend to support me like one girl from deaf family who dont want friends with me, she left me... now i realize i need find people who had common  interests like running and camping or tennis...

i remember few guys ask me join tennis team at gallaudet,  i did realize i should join for fun.....i do have kind of interests....

 cannot i say i need friend or deaf person with aspergers can support me or be there who understand me, but few of them dont want it...

I need to be careful before i find someone who had similar interests and personality, it is not easy to find circle of friends you told me, it takes time to find...

one friend ask me why i did not go giants event parade at early morning, aaron did post event on facebook, i was in meeting with therapist at this time then other meeting... i realize thousand people there at civic center because of giants ceremony.

only i had friend who i still contact with on phone but she still have boyfriend from gallaudet.

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