You were right, even with compiling ffmpeg with libmp3lame.. no difference.
bash-3.2# otool -L dvj.osx
dvj.osx:
/usr/local/lib/libSDL_image-1.2.0.dylib (compatibility version 2.0.0, current version 2.6.0)
/usr/local/lib/libSDL_net-1.2.0.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.7.0)
/System/Library/Frameworks/OpenGL.framework/Versions/A/OpenGL (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.0.0)
/usr/local/lib/libSDL-1.2.0.dylib (compatibility version 12.0.0, current version 12.2.0)
/System/Library/Frameworks/AppKit.framework/Versions/C/AppKit (compatibility version 45.0.0, current version 949.43.0)
/System/Library/Frameworks/Foundation.framework/Versions/C/Foundation (compatibility version 300.0.0, current version 677.22.0)
/usr/local/lib/libsamplerate.0.dylib (compatibility version 2.0.0, current version 2.7.0)
/Library/Frameworks/Jackmp.framework/Versions/A/Jackmp (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.0.0)
/usr/local/lib/libavcodec.dylib (compatibility version 52.0.0, current version 52.20.0)
/usr/local/lib/libavformat.dylib (compatibility version 52.0.0, current version 52.31.0)
/usr/local/lib/libswscale.dylib (compatibility version 0.0.0, current version 0.7.1)
/usr/local/lib/libavutil.dylib (compatibility version 49.0.0, current version 49.15.0)
/usr/lib/libz.1.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.2.3)
/usr/lib/libbz2.1.0.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.0.4)
/usr/lib/libstdc++.6.dylib (compatibility version 7.0.0, current version 7.4.0)
/usr/lib/libgcc_s.1.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 1.0.0)
/usr/lib/libSystem.B.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 111.1.3)
/usr/lib/libobjc.A.dylib (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 227.0.0)
/System/Library/Frameworks/CoreFoundation.framework/Versions/A/CoreFoundation (compatibility version 150.0.0, current version 476.17.0)
/System/Library/Frameworks/ApplicationServices.framework/Versions/A/ApplicationServices (compatibility version 1.0.0, current version 34.0.0)