Got your feature request. Not deleting items is a great idea. I'll
work on that, hopefully we can get it into the 1.0 release.
I haven't been able to replicate the problem that you identified. The
testing I've done this morning shows that userA can't see userB's list
until userB approves the request. There definitely is a hole in the
process. A message does show up in the "manage" panel, but there's no
obvious change in the interface to indicate that. I had played with
putting a red badge showing the number of messages, but there's a bug
in bootstrap where if you click on the badge (rather than outside of
it in the button) it doesn't switch sections. I've updated the
usernames to match their Full Names better. admin is now
Administrator, user is now User and user2 is now User2
Can I ask you to go in and give it another shot?
Approval and intuitive-ness is on my list of things to do for that, as
I can figure it out...