Marriage Help/Avoiding or coping with Divorce
higginster
iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I don't mean
to scare you, but many problems, when they either first show up or if
they keep reoccurring could be just what's showing from a larger
problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the
only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with
each other in the marriage. If things become more serious, more
serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog
that has more information on some of what I've been writing about.
If you feel like checking it out, I would completely suggest it.
http://onlinemarriagecounseling.blogspot.com/
Love is a choice that is made every day when you wake up and every
night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original
feeling, but love isn't a feeling or emotion. It is an action, a
verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up
a little, or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't
just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the
person any more.
Attorney
know. I cannot endorse it, and would rather not remove the link
without some feedback.
It goes without saying though, that if you are interested in marriage
counseling you should go to a qualified therapist. There are great
therapists out there, many of whom I have worked with and would be
happy to pass along their name(s).
It also goes without saying that therapy is not for everyone, and
sometimes a marriage is beyond "repair" (as might be a spouse). I
would like to think that whoever posted the link would acknowledge
that you do have an unfettered right to terminate your marriage for
whatever reason, whenever you want. The question that remains is
whether it is a good choice for everyone involved, and whether the
timing is right, if ever.
Having said that, I wish "higginster" the best of luck, and hope that
if you follow his/her link, you find something of interest.
On Mar 26, 10:13 pm, "higginster" <i_stepped_in_...@hotmail.com>
wrote:
> Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the
> iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I don't mean
> to scare you, but many problems, when they either first show up or if
> they keep reoccurring could be just what's showing from a larger
> problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the
> only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with
> each other in the marriage. If things become more serious, more
> serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog
> that has more information on some of what I've been writing about.
> If you feel like checking it out, I would completely suggest it.http://onlinemarriagecounseling.blogspot.com/
Attorney
your marriage for
whatever reason, whenever you want", you should understand that there
remain legal parameters. Should you need me to clarify further, please
ask.