Surviving Infidelity

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Learning about your spouse's affair is one of the most life changing
events you'll ever have to cope with. The initial mental and physical
pain can be more than most people feel they can bear.
Debbie found that the shock left her feeling completely suicidal, in
such an emotional state that she just couldn't see an end to the
raging emotions of sheer loathing, humiliation, defeat and despair.
She couldn't visualize surviving the infidelity.
"After weeks of trying to come to terms with the shock of my husband
confessing to having an affair, I tried to face up to the news and
move on with my life but I just couldn't get over the feelings of
hate, shock, rage, fear and utter betrayal.
I really hated my husband, the 'other' woman and myself for what had
become of our marriage. I found myself wanting to kill him one minute
and trying to understand why he had done it the next. I didn't know
what to do or where to turn. I had no idea as to whether I wanted to
save my marriage or not but I was totally unprepared for life on my
own....

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