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ok, i feel like an idiot. sorry to waste your time. somehow didnt see the posts, and the posts were right. simply can't focus to infinity... only usefull for macro (which was its intent), very close to the subject. stupid me. sorry all

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ok, i feel like an idiot. sorry to waste your time. somehow didnt
see the posts, and the posts were right. simply can't focus to
infinity... only usefull for macro (which was its intent), very
close to the subject. stupid me. sorry all

Hi Jackie sorry things did not go as you expected it is really hard when this happens. I do hope that you find the pain management course is helpful and as others have said that you meet some others in your position. Take care Sue xx

so sorry to hear that you didnt get on so good this morning. Try and not get too upset and angry as it will only make you feel worse (easier said than done I know!!!). I had the same problem with my doctor when i lived in belfast with regards to tramadol as it was the only pain relieve that helped but they didnt listen and wouldnt prescibe it to me and then when i moved to england i had the same problem until a couple of years ago and now i am allowed it but only 1 four times a day if and when i need it, which is better than not having it at all.

Hi sorry to hear u had a bad time with a so called professional but for a lot of us thats par for the course wiv fibro. Ive had this damn condition bout 6 yrs now nd so far ive been perscribed co-codamol intermittently and a trial of an old style anti depressant meant to work on the nervous system and dampen down pain (cant remember the name though i know its a commonly perscribed one - damn brain fog) and which made me feel so zombified i had to stop them within a month.

However, I'd have to say that a lot of the advice doesn't work in 'real life'. Anyone with a job, a family, caring commitments etc. can't 'pace themselves' when stuff needs doing now (or preferably yesterday). You can't give yourself a 'sleep holiday' where you go to bed at the same time and don't set an alarm unless you have a very understanding boss/family or no support network at all (which of course means that you have twice as much to do). So, whilst their intentions were undoubtedly good, I do wonder who the advice was pitched at.

Are you absolutely sure you're gonna be at [place] at [time]? You knowit's been hard for you to "comply with your proposals" in the past,and I hope you do understand that it's been even harder for me tomanage that: time is precious and I hate to waste it.

For saying no going forward, you can either be very direct - You really cost me a lot of time yesterday while I waited for you and this hurt my schedule - but this may feel rude or aggressive (Did he deserve this response? Yes), or you can just reject any further requests without specifying why, such as Sorry, I have other plans today or Sorry, I was going to see friends yesterday, but rescheduled them for today instead. The latter is less rude, but sends the message across effectively. Since it sounds like you have other things in your life, it's best to indicate these when you make plans with people.

For avoiding this problem in the future, you have a couple of options for handling someone wasting your time when being generic about a time to get together. When someone texts you about spending time, you can do the below to avoid it being any time during the day.

When he suggests hanging out, simply ask for a time and explain that you have other things to do that day (if you don't, and this is just a matter of principle then have some routine things like going to the gym or doing chores ready if he asks what you are doing). This isn't rude - if anything you are saying that you will work the 'other things' around the time he chooses, which is really giving him priority. If he can't commit to a time then just politely ask him to suggest another day. If you are making this arrangement face to face this is even better - get your phone out and open your calendar app. Show him that you are putting the appointment in your diary. This shows that you are organised and committed to the arrangement.

Some folks are very uncomfortable being relied upon to show up socially at a pre-appointed time. Even expending the mental energy to adhere to a plan can be mentally draining. I don't know what your friend's reason is, but with clear expectations of both sides, helping your friend learn how to respect your values, while respecting theirs, and approaching each interaction with a fresh openness (avoid stacking your frustrations), you can keep a healthy relationship.

During a partial colectomy, a surgeon removes the diseased portion of your colon and a small portion of surrounding healthy tissue. The surgeon may join the cut ends of the colon so that waste leaves your body normally. Or it might be necessary to connect the colon to an opening (stoma) in the abdominal wall, where waste leaves the body and collects in a bag attached to the opening. A stoma is usually temporary, but is sometimes permanent.

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You'll spend time in the hospital after your colectomy to allow your digestive system to heal. Your health care team will also monitor you for signs of complications from your surgery. You may spend a few days to a week in the hospital, depending on your condition and your situation.

After proctocolectomy to remove your colon and your rectum, your surgeon may connect your small intestine to your anus (ileoanal anastomosis). This allows you to expel waste normally, though you'll likely have several watery bowel movements daily.

The type of operation you undergo depends on your situation and your surgeon's expertise. Laparoscopic colectomy may reduce the pain and recovery time after surgery. But not everyone is a candidate for this procedure. Also, in some situations your operation may begin as a laparoscopic colectomy, but circumstances may force your surgical team to convert to an open colectomy.

Connecting your intestine to an opening created in your abdomen. The surgeon may attach your colon (colostomy) or small intestine (ileostomy) to an opening created in your abdomen. This allows waste to leave your body through the opening (stoma).

Connecting your small intestine to your anus. After removing both the colon and the rectum (proctocolectomy), the surgeon may use a portion of your small intestine to create a pouch that is attached to your anus (ileoanal anastomosis). This allows you to expel waste normally, though you may have several watery bowel movements each day.

If your surgery involved a colostomy or ileostomy to attach your intestine to the outside of your abdomen, you'll meet with an ostomy nurse who will show you how to care for your stoma. The nurse will explain how to change the ostomy bag that will collect waste.

Once you leave the hospital, expect a couple of weeks of recovery at home. You may feel weak at first, but eventually your strength will return. Ask your doctor when you can expect to get back to your normal routine.

I am very sorry for your loss,my mom just died 5 days after getting her corona shot,the first one,my mom was 88 years old but she was fine before getting it,she went to the hospital she was there 14 days on oxygen,and then in hospice care at home that my brother ordered,for her morphine was ordered by the doctor for her comfort,she was never in pain,but they keep giving it to her,and she was chocking all the time to.she died march10,2021.

RIP Suzanne and my condolences to the family. Your post here reflects great dignity and that of your wife during one of the most difficult life stages we all have to face in various forms. I think it is this aspect that annoys me most. That mere politics of the health system should override basic respect for the courage and dignity of a human being who finds themselves at this most difficult of times. My admiration and sincere respect to you all.

Hi Paul,
Thanks for your article. I am very sorry for your loss. My mother passed away last fall 2016 after suffering 4.5 horrendous years with multiple myeloma. She had both an oncologist/haemotologist and a palliative care physician almost from the beginning. This was possible because once treatment started my parents moved into my area and no longer had her family doctor readily accessible. CCAC in my area immediately was able to refer us to a family physician who specialized in palliative care and always saw his patients in their own homes. He worked in concert with a nurse practitioner and unless they were out of town, they were usually readily available and always came together. Their blend of skills made them indispensable. They stayed caring for Mum from the beginning to the end really with the focus at the beginning on symptom and pain management.

I am so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my mom to COPD. Her wishes were to have MAID step in and help her at the end. They failed us and my mom. False sense of hope. My dad, brother and I had to helplessly watch her die. I had to make very difficult decisions to help speed up the dying process as she was never supposed to get this far and be in this much pain. No palliative care till just 2 days before I called 911. I totally related to your situation. It definitely hit hard. Now if I can only get those bad visions out of my head to be able to move on and feel like my decisions to help her were the right ones.

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