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Danisa Southmayd

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Aug 5, 2024, 8:31:45 AM8/5/24
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Inthe modern age of instant gratification it's no surprise that when you broadcast something on Facebook you want a flood of "Likes" in response. The innocent thumbs up symbol can make you feel validated, appreciated, loved and respected, but the absence of the like leaves you feeling unloved, insecure and perplexed. Trust me, I know. I think I may suffer from "like anxiety." If there's not a medical term for it now, I am sure it won't be long before there is one.

"Likes" are Facebook's social currency, and there is plenty of thumbs up action going on. After all it feels good to be liked and social acceptance is no exception. But are you a genuine liker, or an automatic one? Do you actually like the things you "like" on Facebook?


When I launched my blog and Facebook page I had no idea how I would come to scrutinize and catalog the number or likes, shares and comments. Or more noticeably, the silence. Such is the curse of the social like. Over the past 18 months I have learnt to distinguish the different types of likers. Here are my observations:


The Serial liker: As the name suggests, this person pretty much likes anything in their feed. They are on social media a lot and that little thumbs up from them comes up a nano-second after you've posted your update. Love the serial liker. The serial liker is gold for bloggers. They often get the cycle of likes coming. Someone has to start it of. Although their sincerity is questionable (I mean seriously, can they really like every crappy update about your children?) but it really doesn't matter.


The Discerning liker: This person is far harder to charm and they don't give away their likes easily. They actually think about what you've written or photographed and if they are not convinced, they don't like. From a political rant to a fairly innocuous Pinterest pic, if they don't like what they see, they aint gonna like it. On the upside, getting the thumbs up from the Discerning liker is quite a thrill.


The Agreeable liker: Consistently affable and complimentary, the Agreeable liker lives up to their name, agreeing with pretty much whatever you say. Either you've nailed the message-to-market beautifully and they genuinely do agree with you, or they are just as agreeable online as they are in person.


The Disagreeable liker: This person doesn't seem to agree with much. They have an opinion and aren't afraid to share it on Facebook. They were probably head of the debating team in high school. Or perhaps they are actually quite shy in person but online they find their voice.


The Aloof liker: Much like a distant crush, this person pops up now and then but there's no consistency to their presence. They may like one post, but not the next. Don't push too hard with them. They don't stick around too long and are likely to shut down if you try to engage with them. They arrive late to the party and leave early. The trick with this relationship is to know just the right time to stop the conversation. Push them too hard and they'll get frustrated. Don't show too much interest. A fine balance is the key to sustaining this liker.


The Giveaway liker: This liker is a lurker - lurking in the background just waiting for a giveaway or competition update. You don't see this person pop up in the comments section outside of freebie Fridays. All of a sudden they have an opinion when there's something on offer.


The Teaser liker: This so-called Facebook friend is online liking everyone else's updates apart from yours. You are most likely very close with this person which is why it's so confusing. This person is usually glued to their device so you know they can't be missing your updates. They taunt you by liking every pic and status update on their feed but for some unknown reason they are not liking what you are posting.


* In the interest of full discloser, I love getting liked. So if you haven't already liked me, it's time you did! Come on, "Like" me, please at Not another slippery dip. I'll like you back. I am a payback liker!


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Different patterns of sweet liking exist. For some, liking increases as concentration increases up to a point at which it typically plateaus. These individuals are referred to as sweet likers. How sweet likers' beverage intake, especially sugar sweetened beverage intake, differs from sweet dislikers' beverage intake is not well characterized. A total of 953 visitors (650 adults; 62.0% women; 303 children; 58.7% girls) to the Denver Museum of Nature & Science rated the taste intensity and liking of 5 sucrose solutions that spanned concentrations typically encountered in sugar-sweetened beverages (0.0-13.7% w/v) using visual analog scales. Beverage intake by adults was quantified using the validated BEVQ-15 questionnaire. Among adults, hierarchical cluster analysis identified three clusters of liking patterns (likers, dislikers, and neutrals). Among children, two clusters of liking patterns were identified (likers and dislikers). For both adults and children, BMI, percent body fat, age, and sex did not differ between clusters. Concentration by cluster interaction effects were observed for both adults and children. Adult sweet likers consumed more energy from all beverages, more sweetened juice and tea, and less water than those in other clusters. Sweet liker status may be a useful predictor of increased energy intake from beverages, but prospective trials are necessary to confirm this utility.


Leaders frequently attempt to gain favor from their subordinates by being overly friendly and relaxed about rules and regulations. Practicing this liker-ship blurs their focus on holding themselves and their subordinates to the highest standards of personal and professional accountability. It allows some leaders to rationalize looking the other way when they witness a policy violation or procedural infraction. This may make them seem likable, but it influences whether others respect them. We have seen countless cadets at the Coast Guard Academy attempt to be empathic leaders by lowering standards and looking the other way to avoid tough conversations. As company officers, we find that focusing on how one counsels an individual, delivers sanctions, and checks on their well-being after they are held accountable is what earns respect.


Making tough decisions that result in corrective or disciplinary action may be viewed as unpopular and cause subordinates to question whether you really care about them, but enforcing policies uniformly throughout the unit and upholding good order and discipline separates effective and respected leaders from phonies.


As company officers, we have unfortunately seen this contradiction from both seasoned leaders and cadets. Often, it is a minor regulation infraction such as walking and texting. Occasionally it is something that brings into question core values adherence. Regardless, these actions erode the trust and credibility of leaders at all levels. We train cadets to pick the hard right over the easy wrong, and leaders must do the same.


The Value: Hypocrisy breaks trust within a command and at all organizational levels; the only way to always have your audio match your video, and vice versa, is a relentless combination of transparency and support for truth. Making mistakes is inevitable (we are all human), but the actions you take in the face of adversity are what make your reputation as a leader. The bottom line is that you must acknowledge and mitigate your shortcomings.


The Value: Most people do not speak up because they are afraid of getting shutdown or being wrong or ostracized, especially in front of peers. One instance of being shutdown by a leader may be all it takes to create an environment that instills fear for voicing alternative perspectives. Consistency is key in this regard; leaders must recognize that an environment in which others can safely voice opinions will help them avoid shoal water.


Often, cadets and midshipmen report to service academies having been the valedictorian of their high school class or a three-sport varsity captain, always achieving excellence and never fully experiencing failure. However, whether it is failure in the classroom, barracks, or on the field, nearly all cadets and midshipmen will face failure, perhaps for the first time, while at their service academy.


The academies aspire to develop service-ready officers who are leaders of strong character. Part of that journey includes experiencing failure. When cadets and midshipmen fail, they are often embarrassed and refuse to seek mentors to guide them, letting their ego and pride take over. Aspiring leaders must be taught the fine line between self-confidence, a useful leadership quality inspirational to others, and the toxic characteristics of egoism and arrogance that drive away potential followers.2 Adopting a growth mindset that considers asking for help directly supports the quest for humility.


The Value: Be present in mind, body, and spirit. Do not lose the crew by being physically present but not mentally, emotionally, or spiritually engaged; junior members are highly attuned to your presence.


Many senior leaders wrongly proclaim that leadership is not about liker-ship, potentially misguiding or hindering new leadership growth. Leadership and liker-ship are synonymous with each other. Liked leaders attain more substantial influence, gain more commitment, and create more positive working environments, resulting in passionate and thriving teams


Although some may disagree, liker-ship is key to building more productive teams. Modern leaders should strive to connect with their Soldiers to build trust and create cohesion, and being liked is an integral part of that. Leaders must understand the value of liker-ship and find ways to integrate its benefits by adopting five simple leadership actions.

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