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2: If you perceive an attack being leveled at you by another list member, you may not respond to it on the list. This escalates attacks and it upsets list members who want to read arguments rather than the fights. Write to the people privately, off list (careful -- by default replies go automatically to the list), and/or to the list maintainer sdg@sudval.org to request assistance in dealing with the attack.

3: The subject matter of this list is very emotional. Keep cool. If you feel yourself angered, that is often the best argument for stopping yourself and refusing to write a response.

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