From Stunning to WTH??

[greg]

So, this has happened at least four times in my life.

I've met females that were just stunning--three times (I was already
married the fourth) they were that good I was thinking potential
marriage.

In all different ways--looks, personality, clicking/ chemistry, wow
wow everything. Chatting and flirting for more than a minute or two.
Many opportunities to explore and get different personal frame views
of her.

Then, a month or two later, I see them again, and... "What happened to
her, and why are you calling yourself by her name?" ;) So much so,
that I don't really recognize them. What the heck happened? All that
WOW! is missing, and I don't think it's them...

What changed?? What happened? I'm usually pretty good at judging
women, but those few times were really interesting. Was I just
getting a long glimpse of potential (wave), not reality (particle)?
Or what? Anyone else relate, understand, offer insight?

[Oinarp Mot]

Perhaps you were charmed.
And then, not.

How's it going Greg.

I miss this forum, sometime.

I've had this happen too.

We meet someone and then...

Wow. Blown away and then...

for me I begin to think about marriage and kids and
dating and all the many things that are involved in a relationship
and spontaneity dies.

Where once it was flirtation, it became a burden.

Places I have to go to.
People I have to meet.

I have a fucking life after all, damn it! You cannot drag me
to every fucking birthday party and barmizfa (sp) you get invited too.

I have to have my down time after all.

Anyway. That's how I see it.

The Charm is not as strong as "my reality".

I am going to quote from a guy that was walking behind his
wife in the supermarket I used to work at when I was a kid.

Pay for it, it's allot cheaper.

O.K., so I am jaded. :)

Tp

P.S., I am sorry, were probably looking for something instructive or helpful?

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[Mr. Twenty Twenty]

Flirting.

Flirting is "what is" reaching toward what is possible.

I have a computer, a mind, and....

1. Ability to write.
2. Ability to record.
3. Ability to trade forex.

So I do those three, reaching toward "what is possible".

Relating. Relating can be like mathematics.

Constants and variables - brought together with "operators"

x + - and "divides".....

And like people, can be profoundly interesting.

Until one gets stuck... unless on doesn't get stuck, on what comes after =.

Have fun!

[greg]

Hey Tom, Twenty, how are you?

Good to hear from you two.
Tom, how's reality right now? I'll bet you could use a good
massage... :)

I was actually *looking forward* to marriage and kids and all
that...
Excited about the potential.
Actually looking forward sometimes to seeing them again and
continuing. Other time or two, not really.
(Multiple dates with one for a month, then a break of two months, then
I got picture prints back and tried to figure out how she had fooled
the camera! Ha, with the recent full, bright moon, I remember the
optical effect of when the moon is near the horizon, and the thing
looks hhuuggee... Only to take a picture and see the thing shrink
back to normal size.)

Then I saw them like a few days or a few weeks or a month/ few months
later, and they've gone from 8.5+ all-around to about a 5 (there's a
little math for you, Twenty! :) )

It might have to do with charm, in some way. What is "charm"? Why
was it all there the first time, and not the second?

What was life trying to show me/ teach me/ ?? me ?

No, I wasn't drunk, looking for anything, expecting anything, etc.
when I met them the first time.
I'd met and flirted with lots and lots of women.
(That made it all the more interesting that it happened like that.)

If you get drunk, your perception, thinking, etc. get distorted. How
did I get distorted? Some brain chemical? Something else? How did
it "click" on?

What were the constants? What were the variables? (Sorry, I was
never good at calculus. My only memories: my professor wore cool
suits, my wet hair froze in very cold weather walking outside for a
few minutes, falling asleep while standing at the board, talking with
a girl, and f(x)." Maybe d=1/f(x). Maybe one or two more things.)

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