Blidworth.....Be warned
jack...@my-deja.com
Blidworth woods last night.
I have visited on my own a couple of times lately mainly during the
week and although I haven't seen alot of action I have always found it
to be a safe place where the doggers talk to each other and generally
exchange info on who does what and were.
Last night I visited for the first time on a weekend and was apauled
and disgusted at the attitude that I encountered. I had initially gone
along to find out what the couple scene was like with the intention of
taking my partner this Saturday night.
I must point out that I was in no way pushy or aggressive but quite
happy to sit and watch the comings and goings so as to find out what
the correct protocol was.
The Tower car park seemed to me to be 'run' by a rather over weight and
unattractive couple in a small red hatchback that constantly shouted
abuse at cars that pulled into the car park, this was egged on by a
group of 3 or 4 men who I assume profess to be doggers.
I sat for a while and and eventually got out and politely introduced
myself to a small group that were leaning against their cars. I was
met with stoney silence and there was definately an air of 'who the
f**k are you and what are you doing on our patch'.
I returned to my car and sat with the window open only to be subjected
to a torant of abuse from the couple in the red car. I decided that it
was not a good idea to press my point and left with the shouts of 'F**k
off and don't come back' ringing in my ears.
I should tell you that I served for 9 years as an officer in the
Parachute Regiment and have seen action in the Faulklands and Ulster so
I am not at all intimidated by a bunch of fowl mouthed idiots trying to
mark thier territory like tom cats. However there is no way on Gods
earth that I would dream of taking my partner into a situation such as
I found at Blidworth last night.
The final straw came this morning when I came to take my car into town,
I found a 4" scratch along the passenger door where a 'dogger' had been
leaning while we talked. The car is only 2 weeks old and I had washed
that afternoon and not moved off the drive until I went to The Tower
car park. The only conclusion I can draw is that it was done last
night
at Blidworth.
Surfice to say my partner and I will not be visiting Blidworth to
follow the activities that we both enjoy, it seems we will have to make
our arrangements else where with people we know and can trust which, to
some extent, defeats the object. The only reason I can see for
returning to Blidworth in the near future is to return the favour to
those who damaged my car....... but that would only drag me down to
their gutter level and I have no intention of being associated in any
way with them.
If this is the state of outdoor fun in Nottingham then I am sorry but
you can keep it......you have just lost a couple of very willing
participants!
Jack & Shelley
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Tez&Adel
Looks like I am replying to yet another post about the bad goings on at
Blidworth :(
jack...@my-deja.com wrote:
> I feel I have to tell the group of a very unpleasant visit I made to
> Blidworth woods last night.
> The Tower car park seemed to me to be 'run' by a rather over weight
> and unattractive couple in a small red hatchback that constantly
> shouted abuse at cars that pulled into the car park, this was egged
> on by a group of 3 or 4 men who I assume profess to be doggers.
This behaviour is out of order and although I have witnessed a few
spats, I have never had the misforune to see a couple behaving in this
way, it is out of order.
> I sat for a while and and eventually got out and politely introduced
> myself to a small group that were leaning against their cars. I was
> met with stoney silence and there was definately an air of 'who the
> f**k are you and what are you doing on our patch'.
The doggers who are part of the regular scene at Blidworth who hang
around in their clique are the type you have mentioned here. They don't
like strangers and if you are young, then be warned, because they do
not like the young guys.
As for this couple, I have a fair idea of who they are, they are just
petty story tellers, those who just stand around talking, because the
doggers don't want to do anything with them, so why do they have such a
following? Who knows.
> I returned to my car and sat with the window open only to be subjected
> to a torant of abuse from the couple in the red car. I decided that
> it was not a good idea to press my point and left with the shouts
> of 'F**k off and don't come back' ringing in my ears.
Why does that sound familiar? Because that's how big they act in their
gang, yes that is what it is, bullying... If you were to say wait for
this couple until they leave alone and then force them to pull over,
their attitude would be a much different one, believe me.
> The final straw came this morning when I came to take my car into
> town, I found a 4" scratch along the passenger door where a 'dogger'
> had been leaning while we talked. The car is only 2 weeks old and I
> had washed that afternoon and not moved off the drive until I went to
> The Tower car park. The only conclusion I can draw is that it was
> done last night at Blidworth.
They have no respect do they?
> If this is the state of outdoor fun in Nottingham then I am sorry but
> you can keep it......you have just lost a couple of very willing
> participants!
>
> Jack & Shelley
We too hate what Blidworth has become and unfortunately it all seems to
be this group of idiots all the time. What is wrong with them? Soon
they will scare everyone away and then who will be left? Just them and
then who will they slag off?
I have been ratting on at Terry for sometime now about Blidworth, but
he is hanging in there, thinking this disgusting element will subside
and get bored and either simmer into the background or go all together,
but I know it is going to get worse and worse, unfortunately for all
the couples and new doggers who visit there.
Maybe the time has come to take a stand against this couple and show
them we can't be scared off, but I know that ain't ever gonna happen,
so maybe we will eventually (when Terry agrees) move on to pastures new.
Adel
bim_s...@my-deja.com
carparks in the middle of the night anyway. If you think about it, we
are talking about single males (most of them older, married males)
driving into the countryside in the dead of night, parking in a carpark
with the view of hoping to watch a couple where the woman is in a state
of undress and maybe end up with them allowing the male to have sex
with them, or alternatively standing there with a group of other males,
masturbating while the couple (or another male) has sex. Thats all it
is, a kinda hybrid between being a peeping-tom, watching a porno and
swinging. Is this really the sort of environment where men OR couples
should be being loud and abusive, acting 'hard' or trying to be 'cool'?
Nope. This is the sort of environment where being cautious, being
polite and considerate and being friendly should be paramount.
It may not be bad for the regular couples or doggers as they have got
to know others and know who the nutters are and know alternative places
to go, but to new people, who are almost certainly nervous to an
extent, these sort of events only serve to put them off totally. The
way some of the doggers act you would think that they are running a pub
or some sort of elite social club. Its just stupid.
I'm sure that everyone realises that people talk to each other at these
places, and talk about EVERYONE else. It isn't an anonymous pastime by
any stretch of the imagination, so why people persist in acting in such
a childish way is beyond me. It will only bounce back on them in time.
yeah, thats it...lets all just believe in karma :)
Scooby