nastiness amongst us

[tims...@my-deja.com]

hi everyone i think it's about time we stopped bickering amongst
ourselves as we all know what we want from this scene although some
couples entertain single guys some like to watch some like to be
watched and some only go out there to meet couples we should respect
what each individual wants and not call them just because it doesn't
fit in with what you want and like us sometimes we like to play but
don't pounce on the car expecting whenever we pull up at least give
us chance to settle down for a while and then we'll see what transpires

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[bikewa...@my-deja.com]

Hi tim, sue and all,

I haven't posted for a while, but been keeping up-to-date from the
forums and guess you've hit the nail on the head. It really is up to us
doggers just to back off a bit see, what happens and then respect each
couples preferences. It really is no good us getting fed up with
couples that are only looking for couples or want to play with someone
different this time.

We (doggers) really do need to learn some patience and good manners,
and not be quite so paranoid about getting in first to ensure good view
and best chance if more is on offer.

I was at BLip Sat night and one couple were leapt on as soon as they
came in by 4 blokes; they hardly even had time to turn off the engine.
I sauntered down about 10 mins later to hear a muttered "oh not another
one, this will put them off" from the doggers gathered araound. Well
yes I guess a growing crowd could do that, but after seeing that an
instant gaggle didn't put the show off I thought I'd be OK, and guessed
right.

Maybe I was a bit selfish joining the crowd, but I do believe it is the
former behaviour that is the more objectionable.

Also had an experience at Tog where a couple who, admittedly can be
aloof and selective, where verbally abused as soon as they came into
the carpark. I was very angry about this attitude from the doggers, but
as a non-regular to any site what can one do except make very gentle
hints?

Anyway enough from this frustrated, but hopefully appreciative and
polite dogger. Let's just hope enough doggers are reading the BBs that
a steady change will begin.

Kevin (real name)

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[l_sky_...@my-deja.com]

Hi all, Tim and Sue,

As someone who is very new to the dogging scene I have visited Blid on
a few occasions. A couple of these occasions have been very
pleasurable but the last was very intimidating from the other and
obviously older and regular doogers of Blid. Although not physically
or verbally abused it was quite obvious that my presence there was not
welcome. I'm not a person to back away from a confrontation but I'm
not a violent person either so to do nothing was I feel the best
policy. After all why should I stoop to the levels of these idiots?
As it happened, on this occasion there was no sign of anyone wanting to
play or be watched and I asked myself "is this because of these
idiots?" and I believe the answer is yes. I just hope that the doggers
who are causing problems for everyone else eventually realise the
trouble there are causing and disappear. At the end of the day from a
selfish point of view, I have just discovered a new and very exciting
hobby in dogging and I don't want it to be ruined by idiots. I would
like to think that personally I have manners and always respect the
wishes of the couple concerned, particularly the lady cause without the
ladies there would be no fun.
I hope Tim and Sue you continue to have fun and that sometime in the
future I may have the pleasure of meeting you in one way or another.
Take care.
L-sky_walker

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