Hi Elliot,
What you actually want is call elitism. Mu+lambda only ensure that both parent and offspring populations are considered when creating the next generation, but the actual selection boils down to the selection method you chose. For instance, if you use a tournament, then your "slamming hot" individual may well just not be picked since while the tournament selection is random, especially if you have a small size tournament. In the same way, a very lame individual can just be selected because (by chance) it only had to compete with even lamer solutions...
In DEAP, you can use elitism, that is, selecting the n best individuals in a deterministic way by using the tools.selBest function. However, I would advise not to use it alone : just select something like the 5-10 best individuals, and for the remaining of the selection, use another stochastic method like a tournament. EAs do not like when you try to put too much pressure like that :)
Have fun with DEAP,
Marc-Andre