DON'T go there David.
For people prone to "addiction" it should not be encouraged.
Like other busy absentee fathers I didnt have much time for my kids, even
though I worked from home.
After innocently putting Jazz Jackrabbit on our only computer back in 96 my
7 year old daughter got hooked quickly followed by my 3 year old son
My father then bought my kids a PS1 . Then my other daughter joined in.
It was the end of my son. A myriad of games were gradually acquired. Crash
Bandicoot is a memorable one.
Next mistake was upgrading it in 2002 to PS2 or was it PS3 and they made
the leap to on-line gaming.
That proved way too addictive. The prospect of playing a game with one
other person or a group of people or as part of a team was incredibly
alluring.
He would play all night and if I pulled the plugs he became very aggressive
and wake up the entire family.
On weekends he would typically play all night and get up at noon, do 2 hours
of schoolwork and then say he needed a break. The break was then another 10
hr gaming session.
It was so addictive for one of his schoolfriends that he ended up being so
good at it that he ended up playing in overseas tournaments with a gaming
company flying him to LA at age 19 to join a major team.
He's sanding plasterboard for a living now.
In my son's case it held him back at high school, gaming taking priority;
did not even study for his exams but somehow scraped into Mech Eng at Sydney
uni where he failed and repeated key subjects.
He graduated but with lots of passes, 3 F's and only a couple of credits and
just one distinction all employers overlook his resume.
Which is a real shame because he is a lovely guy and a has the makings of a
capable mechanical engineer if he could find a company that could steer him
in the right direction
The gaming addiction introduced him to lots car racing games and grand
turismo. So any job he applies for has to have cars somehow involved.
Living in a country which with market forces aside has seen fit to
disassemble its once active but heavily subsidised car manufacturing
industry with players like GM, Ford, Chrysler, Toyota and Mitsubishi all
pulling the plug there is no realistic prospect of such employment.
So at age 26 he is still playing games, forgoing sleep and working with the
australian distributor for a major Sports car manufacturer as a junior
racing engineer , not even earning the minimum wage designing after market
sports car parts while his other non game playing mate from school is now a
medical doctor while another guy who he thrashed in maths is in
international finance earning a mozza and another cohort now a medical
researcher/scientist who has just bought herself a house.
Gaming gives many people a sense of achievement that displaces achievement
in real life pursuits.
Some people can manage it, come cannot,
Dont risk it David. It's a pathway to loser-dom.
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