Ah, I see now. Thanks for the screenshots. Ok, so all the attributes are merged (even in styles), EXCEPT for fill color. Looking in the style mapping for fill color it's apparent why: It is a discrete mapping for each of the styles that includes ONLY the nodes in each of the source networks.
Good news: That color is randomly assigned and completely meaningless. So, you can take either style A or B, expand Fill Color mapping, and then right-click on "Discrete Mapping" and choose a new Mapping Value Generator to set new colors for ALL your nodes.
- Alex