"Consider how different you feel as a self in various roles and contexts in your life: as a boss, or an employee; as an owner of a business, or as a customer; as a parent, or as a child; in the company of specific friends , or colleagues. Notice how context dependent your sense of you own personality is. You'll almost certainly find that some ways of being are natural in one context and totally unavailable in others. It is like when moving from room to room in your life, you have a different mind. This isn't a problem, necessarily, but it does reveal that the self isn't quite what it seems. (Sam Harris, Moment, Waking Up app) "