It can be smart to test some other transfection reagents. Try to contact companies selling them and tell them about your problem.
They often want you to try (and later buy) their products so make use of that (ask for a free sample to try for example).
Or go for electroporation if you have a machine available.
If you cannot switch, try enriching for transfected cells for example via FACS or puro-selection.
Anoeska