Hello,
Whether you scale the 1-4 interctions or not depends on the force field and system (lipid, protein, nucleic
acid). For instance, I use CHARMM22 force field and I do not scale the 1-4 interactions (VDW_SCALE14 and EI_SCALE14 set to 1.0).
You need to read how your force field was optimized and what scaling factor (if any) is suggested.
Also I do not really see reason to do rescaling for QM/MM and not for classical simulations. Plausibly
this rescaling is just related to FF type.
Best wishes,
Dawid