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nekkidchrissy
Sep 22, 2007, 10:18:38 PM9/22/07
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I don't get enough attention at home! I never even get a little kiss
or anything! And never a compliment of any kind! (But I still love
him.) Anyone else with this problem???
or anything! And never a compliment of any kind! (But I still love
him.) Anyone else with this problem???
I hope I don't have to wait a month for someone to respond! :-)
chris
Sep 28, 2007, 6:27:34 PM9/28/07
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sorry i took so long to respond, i have just signed in, my sympathy to
you i understand your feelings on this one, like you i do not get
enough attension at home! i have not had sex for about 4 or 5 months
now and im very concerned, i dont think she is having sex else where i
just belive she is not interested, i dont know why its as though its
not a priority for her, she never takes the lead i have to always
instigate it and i feel that she is just obliging out of duty, i have
tried to speak with her on the subject many times but she just says
she will talk to me about it BUT NOT NOW im now gettin g really angry
and paranoid about this after all how long cn a relationship go on
without sex or at least the desire. antone else have this problem who
can help?
you i understand your feelings on this one, like you i do not get
enough attension at home! i have not had sex for about 4 or 5 months
now and im very concerned, i dont think she is having sex else where i
just belive she is not interested, i dont know why its as though its
not a priority for her, she never takes the lead i have to always
instigate it and i feel that she is just obliging out of duty, i have
tried to speak with her on the subject many times but she just says
she will talk to me about it BUT NOT NOW im now gettin g really angry
and paranoid about this after all how long cn a relationship go on
without sex or at least the desire. antone else have this problem who
can help?
nekkidchrissy
Sep 30, 2007, 2:51:10 AM9/30/07
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Yeah, I used to think my husband was just getting it somewhere else,
and that's why he didn't want to fool around. Then I wondered if he's
bored with me, and maybe I should change something about my
appearance, like bleaching or dying my hair or something. Now I
believe he just isn't interested in it very much.
and that's why he didn't want to fool around. Then I wondered if he's
bored with me, and maybe I should change something about my
appearance, like bleaching or dying my hair or something. Now I
believe he just isn't interested in it very much.
chris
Sep 30, 2007, 6:11:14 PM9/30/07
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i cant speak for all guys but if it helps i will give you some
pointers from my perspective:
try taking the lead, dont wait for him, like you girls guys needs to
be warmed to the idea so dont expect instant reaction, a guy likes his
woman to be many people i.e some times a tart, some times
sophiosticated, dont just keep it to the bedroom be adventerous, i.e
the car, the woods, the beach or even something more risky like a side
alley. The misonary position (forgive my spelling) is ok every now and
then but try as many options as you are comforatable with including
anal if you are ok with this, oral sex, sit on him and his face etc,
try dressing up, but most of all dont fall into the same old routeen
all the time, he will get bored, try going for a walk in the country
and then out of nowhere take him as pasionatly as you can. Sorry to be
so blunt with all of this i dont mean to offend i just want to get the
message across it may help, i am a firm beliver that the more you do
it the more you want it. If the above doesnt do it, try the doctor or
other alternatives like relationship councelling or perhaps a trip to
a sex shop together, with a former girlfried i found pleasure gel good
(ann summers), each guy will have a prefered position find out what it
is, talk about it with him, many men need the mind stimulation as much
as the physical its not all "wham bam thank you mam" best of luch and
have fun.
pointers from my perspective:
try taking the lead, dont wait for him, like you girls guys needs to
be warmed to the idea so dont expect instant reaction, a guy likes his
woman to be many people i.e some times a tart, some times
sophiosticated, dont just keep it to the bedroom be adventerous, i.e
the car, the woods, the beach or even something more risky like a side
alley. The misonary position (forgive my spelling) is ok every now and
then but try as many options as you are comforatable with including
anal if you are ok with this, oral sex, sit on him and his face etc,
try dressing up, but most of all dont fall into the same old routeen
all the time, he will get bored, try going for a walk in the country
and then out of nowhere take him as pasionatly as you can. Sorry to be
so blunt with all of this i dont mean to offend i just want to get the
message across it may help, i am a firm beliver that the more you do
it the more you want it. If the above doesnt do it, try the doctor or
other alternatives like relationship councelling or perhaps a trip to
a sex shop together, with a former girlfried i found pleasure gel good
(ann summers), each guy will have a prefered position find out what it
is, talk about it with him, many men need the mind stimulation as much
as the physical its not all "wham bam thank you mam" best of luch and
have fun.
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nekkidchrissy
Sep 30, 2007, 7:40:22 PM9/30/07
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WOW! That was very descriptive! :-)
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