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Nov 1, 2011, 5:41:00 PM11/1/11
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Ray Sears, the Financial Secretary of Annapolis Council, is in the hospital and underwent surgery which cost him his second leg.
Please keep him and his family in your prayers for his recovery.  I will pass on subsequent messages as I get them.
See below emails.
Thank you,
Larry
GK

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Subject: [BensonAssembly381] FW: re Raymond L. Sears
Date: Sun, 30 Oct 2011 12:48:19 -0400
From: Bob Welenc <bob_w...@cablespeed.com>
To: Benson Yahoo Group <BensonAs...@yahoogroups.com>


 

Sir Knights,

Our Brother Ray Sears has been in the hospital this past week due to diabetic complications. He has lost his other leg, and is going to be transferred to a rehab facility in the next few days. I am sure that Ray and his family can use a lot of prayers. Below are a couple of emails from his son, Ray, Jr.

Bob

Originally dated 28 October 2011

hey guys, Dad just got back from surgery.....had a little more 'complications' regarding the infection than they thought; thus they had to take a bit more of the leg than planned. Good news was that his organs/body held up fine and he responded well. Unfortunately this one, since they went higher up than expected, is very painful. They are monitoring vitals and blood pressure closely. Dr Martin said that the recovery and ability to learn mobility and 'transfer' would be a long and tough one. (bathroom, moving chairs, cars, etc). He wants dad out of the hospital asap due to infections around and a "lot of very sick people here right now".

We are making plans for a rehab facility today. They think he will be released on Monday or Tuesday and transfered to the facility we pick. Time there is determined by him and his progress. Then we have to work on adapting the house for conduciveness to mobility, safety, and being able to eat in a kitchen or table...all to promote a schedule and routine.

Dr martin says smoking MUST stop immediately, no weening off or casual....zero. Plus constant monitiring of blood sugar, proper diet, and exercise of stubs and core. He has to strengthen his arms, since they are now his legs.

I UNplugged his phone for now, so don't panic. He is sleeping and still not out of anestesia; thus we need him to sleep and keep his mind off of this leg pain.

For now, thx to all the visitors; however he'll be out of it for a while....maybe visitors starting tomorrow morning....today is kinda rough and still all hooked up and recovering.

i will be inetrviewing or hiring a home health nurse for a few hours each morning to assist him and Rob when dad gets back to the house late next week or 2.

Thx for all the concern and support and as usual, realize I am on a work computer and dont have everyone's email address here, so feel free to share or forward the update with those not listed.

Thx for thoughts and prayers, Ray

Originally dated 23 October 2011

Hey guys,

Thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers over the last 48 hours. Additionally thanks for being great friends to my dad and always looking out for his health. As you know the last 48 hours have been a true trial and scare. It really looks like we are ‘out of the weeds’ in regards to the infectious blood throughout the organs…ultrasounds have not shown any permanent damage. After a blood transfusion and additional 3 units of blood throughout the 2 days, it looks like that is a bit under control. They are monitoring blood pressure, sugar levels, and the infected area real closely.

Unfortunately, they did have to remove the foot, ankle, and a few inches higher this morning. Though they were really worried how the heart and organs would respond to the surgery, they had to go forward ( we had a rough tough with that ‘gamble’). BUT, surgery went well and he handled it great. As he was very depressed, unresponsive, and seemed like he ‘gave up’; we battled and reminded him of friends and family and how we preaches about ‘respecting life’. Well the surgery was only an hour and he snapped right back. He looked great, had color, was talking, ate ALOT, and was a joy to be with.

There is still ONE more surgery needed probably this Friday. Due to the vascular and other related reasons they didn’t remove as much as they wanted to and will finish Friday. This IS now standard procedure for diabetics…… they want healing, antibiotics, etc etc to ‘clean up’ some of the areas below the knee so they can save the knee…..which they think is a, and I quote, 90% chance of saving.

Dr Martin said that he was “2-3 weeks from expiring in an ugly way” ….so thanks to all of you that showed concern, noticed the little (or big) things that were wrong, and made us aware of these things. They all made a difference when Rob and I insisted on 911 (actually, just called despite his wishes).

Turns out that Dad hasn’t been to a doctor, in any sort, since February. He has cancelled all appointments as they came up, made excuses, and reported fabricated results and details to friends and family…..yes….amazing. Guess I learned my lesson. As Dr Martin said…..”he needs a co-pilot now on all trips to the doctor’s office”

When he returns from home in about 2 weeks, I hope to have the house cleaned & straightened up a bit, looking into modifying his car for driving, getting an additional prosthesis, and most of all find a way to hire a aid or nurse at home in the morning for double duty…..Rob and He need someone from about 6-9am every morning (or maybe even 5-8am)…SO, if anyone knows a home nurse or someone, pls holler.

Well, dad is in Room 423 at the hospital and can take visitors and IS up to having them. If you can’t make it, his # is 443-924-2423.

Thx for all the thoughts and prayers,

Ray

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