We'd like to add per-connector/task metrics to Kafka Connect itself, but they aren't there quite yet. This gets a bit tricky because in distributed mode you might see connectors/tasks bouncing around workers -- not regularly, but during a rebalance it will happen -- so the metrics will bounce around workers as well. To make it easy to consume we'll have to get them reported somewhere (presumably a Kafka topic) in an easy to parse format.
If you're trying to get some stats out now for performance tuning where you can run controlled experiments with only one connector per worker, all the normal metrics for producer/consumer are still there since we just use the producer/consumer internally. Those are a good starting point to collect performance numbers.