Jeroen,
> So your approach to continuing a dialogue where the other side
> gets irritated at your snark is to use *even more snark*.
So you didn't ask yourself why the other party was making his initial snarky
remarks (hint: I got *very* irritated whith your attitude), but just threw
it upon me wanting to have a "battle of wits" ? Really ? No
introspection of any kind ?
> I am so tempted to say "that's not how it works, I'm afraid"... but I
won't. :-)
Its called sarcasm, and it looks it already did work. I think I've got
your full attention now.
> If I had said "you're wrong" when you weren't, I could see why
> you'd get annoyed.
Well, you did. Granted, not with those exact words.
> Instead, I said what I thought to be the truth
I'm almost sure that you did that.
Maybe the problem is that I can't really understand how someone with your
apparent knowledge and experience can simply make a statement like that all
threads are equal, without even considering (the described by me!)
parent-child relationship between two of them.
> Can you point it out when I'm not?
Your whole reply was a big chain of "being wrong". You did it so plentiful
that I was really wondering if you did it on purpose, but simply could not
believe it.
> I honestly couldn't tell from your post what, exactly, you
> were saying was the case.
... but you ignored all that "can't tell" and just proceded to take whatever
you than had as "the truth" and proceeded to tell me what I did/assumed
wrong based on that ? Why ?
> It's nice that you explain after the fact, but it's all I was
> after in the beginning.
Did you ask for any clarification ? At any point ? Why not ? Why did
you just continue talking, even though you had no clue if you understood me
right ?
> I'm thinking this is a simple breakdown in communications ...
True. I tried to convey some information, you couldn't quite tell what it
was. You did not try to rectify that situation, or even show doubts to me
to some of your conclusions. The communication was broken from that point
on.
You mentioned my being snarky in my first reply to you (with not so many
words). Any chance you now see that as a result of, instead of the cause ?
> You can blame me for being dense and hitting the wrong tone
> if you want, but not for the actual attitude.
Hmmm... If you mean by "attitude" if I think you did it on purpose ? No,
I don't think so.
As for the rest ? I don't know you long enough to tell what your
true/long-term attitude is, I have to do with whatever snapshot your replies
bring me.
> If I can offer advice in return: if you want help, please assume
> good faith for longer than you usually would
I do. But I do have my limits.
I would like to end this with the words "lets just forget it happened", but
I really do hope you don't. :-)
Regards,
Rudy Wieser
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