On 02/06/2021 16:38, Doctor Who wrote:
> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 16:19:32 +0200, David Brown
> <
david...@hesbynett.no> wrote:
>
>> On 02/06/2021 15:50, Doctor Who wrote:
>>> On Wed, 2 Jun 2021 09:34:04 -0400, James Kuyper
>>> <
james...@alumni.caltech.edu> wrote:
>>>
>>>> On 6/2/21 5:49 AM, Doctor Who wrote:
>>>>> On Wed, 02 Jun 2021 01:47:58 -0700, Keith Thompson
>>>>> <
Keith.S.T...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>> ...
>>>>> if you are not a moderator of this newsgroup please refrain from
>>>>> trying to educate people on how they must behave online.
>>>>
>>>> This is an unmoderated newsgroup, which means that Keith can't do any
>>>> more to stop you from acting rudely than you can do to stop him from
>>>> pointing out your rudeness. Enjoy!
>>>
>>> Thus I am acting rudely because I defend a woman?
>>>
>>
>> You did not "defend a woman" - you /belittled/ a woman. (Assuming, of
>> course, that Bonita /is/ a woman.)
>>
>> Gender does not matter in programming, or in discussions about
>> programming. Therefore, any treatment based on gender in a forum about
>> programming is necessarily sexist and prejudice. It doesn't matter
>
>
> the problem at hand is not the forum, but the person which was being
> negated respect, and according to nickname she is a woman.
You are free to complain about people being rude or disrespectful - you
are /not/ free to do so because someone is (or appears to be) a woman.
If you had asked Mr. Spock to be more respectful and polite, that would
have been fine. But you said he should be respectful because she is a
woman - no other reason. /That/ is sexist, and disrespectful to Bonita.
How can this be difficult for you to understand?
(I know what it is like to communicate in a language other than one's
mother tongue - if you think the language is an issue, please say so.
You write perfectly good English so I will assume you understand my
language.)
>
>
>> whether you are attacking a person for their gender, or defending them
>> because of it. You have, in essence, been saying that Bonita needs help
>> to argue on the internet because she is merely a woman - it is clearly
>> sexist on your part.
>
> Yes! and I am free to help anybody I want to help.
>
You are free to help - you are not free to be sexist (or bigoted in
other ways) without being called out.