1. Westlakes will cut to whatever size you need. I had good luck with that. You can also get pre-cut borosilicate (Pyrex) sheet online.
2. Definitely play with bed temps. ABS is notorious for warping and you need a really good bond between part and bed. Try a higher temp especially for the first layer. Also can try heat plus painters tape for better adhesion.
3. Your power supply isn't big enough. Get a bigger one. I recommend www.circuitspecialists.com
4. If you want to try kapton, you can get the 3" tape at www.ultimachine.com
Good luck!
Something else worth noting - by far the best resource for 3d printing questions is the #reprap channel on Freenode IRC (irc.freenode.net). I have gotten and given piles of advice there over the years; it's an awesome community.