ColdSpring call getComponentMetaData() on all it's beans. I don't think there is a way not to make it do that (be curious as to the stack trace you are getting, so I can work out if it would even be possible, but I doubt it), and I assume that is where your issue lies.
There are 2 ways, but basically one concept - you need to check if the framework Reactor / Transfer exists, and then programatically add in the BeanDefinitions for the ormAdapter and ormService beans.
1) Write a custom xml namespace for model glue to use internally.
This is the cleanest from an implementation point of view, but is a bit more work. The parse() method in a AbstractBeanDefinitionParser gives you a nice simple hook to add in your own bean definitions to the BeanRegistry.
2) This is probably a bit less work to do - but add a BeanDefinitionRegistryPostProcessor to your XML configuration.
This will enable you to intercept very early on in the instantiation process - such that you can manually add and remove your own beans.
From either approach, you can look for the existance of either of these frameworks, and add the required services as you need them.
These approaches need more than just API documentation, but I'm happy to point you towards existing code that shows you how it works.
Mark